By Panchamee HEWAVISSENTI

This week's 'love talk' is with popular actor Dinidu Jagoda.

Who is your model loving couple? Aaa. I don't have a model loving couple in my life as such since I hardly have any favourites. Then no point in asking the second question...... You can try....

What is your favourite love song? I used to have a favourite love song a couple of years ago. It's Brian Adam's Heavens.

What do you like your partner to wear? Anything which makes her look more feminine.

Do you like rough or smooth love? In between. Roughness or tenderness should not be in the extremes. I personally like a love which flows with less complications such as fights and unnecessary arguments.

But any way no one can expect a perfect love which is void of problems. But a love which has less problems would be nicer. I like to have a simple and nice love life. Not that I take everything in a lighter way. Lovers should be responsible to some extent. Is possessiveness a good trait in a lover? Personally I don't like my partner to be very much possessive of me. Neither I am a possessive person. Possessiveness should be there to a certain extent which would increase the love and understanding between each other. I have seen some people are very possessive. They impose too many restrictions on their lovers. That person might be doing it in a good faith out of love for his/her lover but sometimes it becomes a real nuisance to the other party. I have seen some people suffer due to the possessiveness of their lovers. So, I don't want my lover to be very much possessive of me and she should not expect me to be possessive of her. What type of a partner are you looking for? I am not involved in a relationship at the moment but I had been in relationships earlier. I look for a partner who could complement my life; someone who could assist me in career- wise and in my personal life. I am moving forward in my career so the girl who will be my partner should not drag me backwards out of possessiveness. She should be understanding and trustworthy. Better if I and my partner have common interests. so that conflicts between us would be minimised. My partner should be able to get closer to me not only as a lover but also as sister and a friend. It is important that we are in constant communication with each other and often engage in heart- to -heart discussions. Does "patience" play a vital role in a romantic relationship? I don't think so. Patience is needed, but it's not the most important quality. Human beings might lose temper at any time.

I have a crush on you

To my dearest and loving Nikki,

I never expected you to call me after we met at the Horse Riding Academy. I still remember how trembling I was behind you on the horse. Though you asked me to hold you tight, I was a bit afraid to hold you since you're a stranger. I also remember that you asked me to at least hold the belts of your jacket.

The horse was running fast. Also,you whispered that you wanted to drop me off the horse and to my horror the horse was struggling. My heart beat was accelerating not out of fear of falling off the horse but was going to hold you......I think that's what you wanted.

That was a lovely day, I enjoyed myself very much. I think you enjoyed too. When you called me after a couple of weeks, you spoke with a note of dissatisfaction - of not receiving a call from me. .....Actually I didn't have such an urge to call you till you spoke to me in a very lovable tone that day. We spoke nearly half an hour.

You told me that you don't have a girl friend and hoping to have one... but you didn't tell me who that girl would be... I guess it's me...From that time onwards I started feeling something strange. I don't know what it is...I can't help seeing you..talking to you or texting you. That's why I text you till I run out of credits in my phone. I have texted you saying "I miss you". Not "I love you" so far. But I love you. Because I think you love me too. Isn't that why you wanted me to come for another horse ride next week?

You have changed my life....now I have a hope to live; it's you my darling...I love you...eagerly waiting to hear those three words from you....call me as soon as you see this or if you see this when I am beside you, keep a tender kiss on my cheek and say" I love you" Yours forever, My me.

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