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Change of heart

Broken hearts are hard to heal. It’ll take time to heal but it won’t really take too long if you are willing to give it your best shot. Sometimes the aftermath of a broken heart can haunt us even if we find someone new. Our past teaches us lessons that make us more sensitive and humane. Breaking up with someone you care about is one of the toughest decisions any of us will ever have to make. Dealing with pain and heart break is never easy. We just have to live the days as they are set out and not live in the past. All of us have had a broken heart, even if it was a childhood sweetheart who left you for another boy who gave her a lollipop or a ten year marriage that ended in adultery.

Some people use innocent hearts for their benefit and throw them away when they’ve achieved whatever cheap agendas. The outcome of this is either the person who had been betrayed would hate or attempt to take revenge from him or anyone else who comes his or her way. It is true such a person needs to get punished but sometimes we just have to let it go. Let justice be served by whatever religion we believe in or nature itself. But I know, it’s easier said than done.

You may have undergone great emotional torture, one of the major challenges one would face and need to overcome. If you don’t overcome it, the damage you would be doing to yourself would be much deeper than what you have been already subjected to. We all go wrong in life because of temptations that come our way. But remember to take one step at a time. Even if you loved him more than life itself, if he makes your life a living hell that itself is enough for you to understand that he is not worth a penny.

As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn’t supposed to let you down probably would. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it’s harder every time. You’ll blame a new love for things your X did.

You’ll cry because time is passing too fast, and you’ll eventually lose the best days which are yet to come. Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that you’ll be loved back! Don’t expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart, but if it doesn’t, be content it grew in yours. “Happiness happens for those who got hurt, cried and those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives”.

Always remember that there are greater losses people may have undergone, especially people who have done a lot of wonderful things in your life, a person who wanted to see you happy all the time or someone who would have done everything to keep you right at the top of the world. If one could move on even after the loss of such a person, why let a harmful, selfish person get to you? It’s never going to be easy but remember no pain lasts forever.

Keep telling yourself nothing else matters except living your dreams again.Make sure your dreams don’t involve material things but self-respect, protecting your integrity and character. Surround yourself with wonderful friends and family and you will smile again before you even know it.

Silence begins the day As morning comes without notice Tears begin to fall, slowly

The day moves on without hope Wishing to be what is not to be

The sun moves to its peak Without a whisper or retreat Time moves, but still my heart is empty.

- Anuki


Did I read your eyes wrong?

I don’t remember when you actually moved to our neighbourhood, because it took a long time for me to notice you. I wonder even today if I would have noticed you if you started taking note of me first.

I thought it was a fling, but throughout the years you started to come closer to me showing me generous amounts of affection. At first I was scared at the thought of falling in love with you. What if I lost you?

You were too good to be true. But you gave me no choice. How could I not love you when your smile made my heart sing, when the look in your eyes made my cheeks crimson, or when your touch made my heart beat so fast? After many sleepless nights I built the courage to show you my affection.

Then at the moment, when I least expected I heard that you already have a girlfriend. My sweet-dream turned in to a nightmare. Why did you make me feel so special when I was with you? Why did you come close to me when I tried to keep my distance from you? You wouldn’t let her go yet you won’t leave me alone either.

I’m confused, hurt and angry. I trust my sense of salvation to lead me through this emotional breakdown but how can I look at you as nothing happened when you look at me like that?

Hansaani De Silva


Love Lines

A mirage
He was not the person
She thought
She was badly mistaken she regrets
He has broken the promises
He gave her

He wanted to leave her
At a time
She did not expect
Reasons unknown to her

She was badly shaken
Her heart was broken
Moreover, his mouth spoken
Disgusted dirt to her
Can sweet and filthy words
Come from the same mouth?

Memories of long days
Cannot be forgotten within one day
But happy to understand
That he is not honest in his ways
But selfish in his expectations!


Praneetha Perera


Love is dying

Sweetness comes calling
At your doorstep in the morning
Preciousness hugs you smiling
In your hours of warnings
Footsteps lead you to a ground
Half closed eyes, many men stand around
Shaking hands they will start crying
Because at your doorstep,
Today love is dying
 

- W.A.D. Joel Lennon

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