Male behaviour women secretly love
Being a man’s man
Although it may seem like a woman wants a man who dresses up more
than he acts up, sometimes a football-playing, nacho-eating,
jersey-wearing guy can be more appealing than you would think. Now and
again, she enjoys seeing you in your element getting to rescue her or
fix stuff or goofing off with the guys.
 A woman doesn’t date a man in order to have a competitor for
prettiest hair or shoes; it’s likely that the differences between the
two of you are what attracted her in the first place. It is true that
when you go out for dinner, she would like you to dress well and act
better, but what she doesn’t admit is that, for the most part, she
appreciates your masculinity, no matter how unfinished it may be.
Saying no
Having a mind of your own is a good thing, even if it means making
her angry now and again. Guys tend to think that women want a boyfriend
they can lead around by the nose, and who will do whatever he’s told.
While it would be a relief to know things would happen exactly how she
planned them, being in a relationship like that could get really boring.
Women want a guy who has something to offer in terms of opinions and
conversations. They also want a man with a personality. Women who enjoy
being in power tend to enjoy being challenged once in a while.
Don’t cancel on your buddies – she is turned on by your hectic social
life…
Being jealous
Jealousy is a very powerful emotion. Although unchecked jealousy can
easily get out of hand, a touch here or there can really fan the flames
of attraction. If she thought you really didn’t care about her coworker
who has a crush on her, she would think you didn’t care about her at
all. When you ask the intentions of her close-working coworker she may
chide you for your overactive imagination, but it’s certain that she’s
smiling on the inside. Remember: When it comes to jealousy, a little
will go a long, so use it very sparingly. Be aware of its power and
allure: She can get really interested in a man who’s protective of her
assets.
Showing occasional vulnerability
Everybody likes feeling needed sometimes, and since women aren’t
often in the position where they can protect their boyfriends, it’s nice
to see you need help in other ways. For instance, she may gripe that you
need more socks or she’ll complain that you always forget to pick up
your dry cleaning or that you always need help picking out your
tie/shirt ensemble.
It may sound silly, but sometimes helping you out in these little
ways can make a woman feel good and more attracted to you. It’s just
that if you need help and she can offer it, she’ll feel powerful,
helpful and important. Men seem to think that they need to be an
untouchable hero figure to be attractive to women, but that’s just not
true. A little hint of helplessness makes you somewhat vulnerable, and
most women can’t wait to sweep in and help.
Hiding your feelings
She may always complain that she doesn’t know what you’re thinking;
she may ask to talk about your relationship or your day at work. It
seems like she is always asking for you to pour your heart out so that
she can know your innermost feelings. You know that women talk to their
girlfriends about all their ups and downs, and especially about their
worries. Likewise, it would probably be easier for her to know the score
if you told her exactly how you were feeling.
 Sometimes, however, the fact that you’re a little bit mysterious or
elusive can be a major advantage. Half the fun is figuring out how to
crack the case. Women enjoy the challenge of figuring out what you’re
thinking without having to be told. So keep it a mystery; share the
important stuff, and don’t feel pressured to give it all up when she
asks you to.
Occasionally objectifying her
Women want to be respected for their brains and abilities, just like
men. If a woman’s looking very attractive, she wants some attention for
it. Of course, this depends heavily on circumstance and the relationship
with those attention-givers. But when it comes to a man she likes, that
woman will not mind having her assets checked out. Women enjoy a
compliment, just like men do.
Note: Don’t be on your best behaviour
The bottom line is that, although a woman who nags you is usually
being sincere (it’s very likely that she’s actually annoyed when you
leave crumbs on the table or don’t pick up your socks), if you actually
complied with what she said she wanted, she’d miss the old you.
These behaviors generally fall into two camps: those that make you
who you are, and those that reveal your attraction to her. Since we know
women like attention, and since women like men, it’s likely that she
smiles to herself when she thinks of you and your quirky antics. So
don’t always take what she says at face value; in most cases, she
actually likes you for you.
- Askmen.com
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