Women’s tests and how to pass them
 While you’re on the right track
in terms of chivalry and gentlemanly behaviour if you read the article
on gentlemanly behaviour a couple of weeks ago on the Sunday Observer
Magazine, what you must realize is that women are always looking for
subtle clues that you really are Mr. Right. And here’s your chance to
prove that you are, by passing all her tests. Men, you must stay on your
toes.
The family test
If you’ve listened to her attentively, then there’s nothing to worry
about. Remember that first date when you discussed each other’s family
lives? Well, here’s your chance to put your listening skills to the
test.
If you remember things about her family, mention them while on later
dates with her, by asking her what happened to her sister’s sick dog, or
referring to something she told you about her father’s golf game.
If you don’t remember what she told you, or don’t even know whether
or not she told you, just ask her; you’ll score points by showing a
sincere interest.
The gift test
Once you’re at the ‘just like that’ gift-giving phase, you’ll learn
why it’s the thought that counts. She says she looks forward to that
time of day when she can just kick up her feet in the bath; you buy her
an oil burner that she can use while she’s bathing.
These little gifts don’t need to be big as they speak volumes about
your thoughtfulness and attention to detail.
The “wait for her to open the door” test
 When you take her out on the first few dates, it’s a given that
you’ll walk her to the door when you drop her off. But just because
you’re past date number five, it doesn’t mean it’s all downhill from now
on. If you don’t walk her to her door when dropping her off, always wait
for her to get in the door before driving away. Never speed off while
she’s left there fumbling for her keys.
The waiter test
You treat her with respect, but is that the real you or the ‘you’
that wants to butter her up? She wants to know how you will act with her
friends and everyday people you encounter, and she’ll know how you treat
others by watching how you interact with total strangers. Do you thank
the waiter when he brings you a glass of water, or do you throw the
water on his face when your order is messed up? How you treat others –
especially strangers – is a reflection of how personable and
down-to-earth you are.
The “ask me later” test
The two of you are out for dinner, and she leans over and says,
“Remind me to tell you something later.” Don’t get all freaked out, it’s
not necessarily a serious conversation topic that has something to do
with a ring; maybe it’s something she didn’t want to mention in a loud
restaurant. If you remind her that she wanted to tell you something,
you’ll not only prove that you were listening, but you’ll also show that
you’re interested.
The ‘is she prettier than me?’ test
This one is the trickiest, and I assure you that it’s inevitable. She
will set you up for this one, and the less you say, the better off
you’ll be. It can happen anywhere: you can be walking down the street or
watching a movie, you can even be sitting in your living room together
enjoying a cocktail.
 She’ll ask you about a friend of hers, a famous actress, or a woman
walking down the street. Always say something like: “Why do you even
have to ask me? Don’t you know you’re the prettiest?” (in a very sweet
voice) or “Don’t you know no other woman compares to you?” This will
probably come your way once you’re dating steadily. Just give in.
The ‘I had a bad day’ test
She comes home from work wanting to rip someone’s head off, and it
looks like you’re the victim. She’s complaining about what a horrible
day she had at the office, and she’s close to tears. Do you run over to
comfort her, or do you go out with your friends as planned, assuming
she’ll be fine once she watches one of those soaps?
You don’t have to go over to her place to cheer her up, but it
definitely wouldn’t hurt. While you’re talking to her on the phone, ask
about her day, and if you don’t already have plans, ask her whether she
wants to go out. If you already have plans, then it’s up to you whether
or not you want to break them, depending on the importance your plans.
If you can’t break them, tell her how sorry you are that you already
made plans, and if you can, stop by her house on your way out and
reassure her that she’ll feel better in the morning. Bonus: bring along
her favourite ice cream.
- askmen.com
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