Signs he is interested in you
Dating can be confusing; it’s hard to know if that single guy from
work is interested in you or if he’s just being polite. Is he really
interested in getting to know you better, or is he bored and just
passing the time?
When you first meet…
*He can’t keep his eyes off you
 Men are visual creatures. When a man sees a woman he finds
attractive, he’ll want to look at her again, and again, and again. If
the new guy keeps throwing glances at you there’s a good chance he is
seen something he likes. Watch where his eyes go. Is he checking out
other women, or is his gaze constantly returning to you?
*He moves closer to you
If he makes a conscious effort to sit by you or get closer to you,
you can bet you have got his attention. Leaning closer to talk to you or
focusing his attention on just you and your conversation, is also a good
sign that he is interested.
*He jokes with you
Women are attracted to funny men, and men seem to know intuitively
that this is one of the more potent weapons they have in their romantic
arsenal. If a man jokes with you and only you, you can assume he is
interested in interacting with you more. If he jokes with everyone else
in your group, he may just be having a good time being in the spotlight,
but a private joke breeds a sense of intimacy, insinuating that he likes
sharing a private laugh just with you.
*He modifies his behavior to mirror yours
Nonverbal cues are often more telling than verbal cues. A person who
is emotionally engaged with another person will often modify personal
habits to mirror the person with whom they are interacting. So if he
leans in to talk to you when you lean in to talk to him, or if he sits
facing you with a pose similar to your own, know you’ve caught his
attention and interest.
*He casually mentions future contact
If a man mentions wanting to do something with you in the future, you
can assume he is interested in you and is trying to get a feel for if
you are open to getting to know him better. If you mention that you play
tennis and he says, “Maybe we could hit the ball around sometime,” he is
probably interested in you.
If you work together
Dating someone at work is always a little tricky, and, in some cases,
can even be against work rules. However, when you work with someone
forty hours a week, it’s easy to develop feelings for a colleague. How
do you know if he is interested in you and not just playing around?
* He stops by your desk
If he stops by your desk for only work-related reasons, you can’t
take his attention or friendliness as any indication of interest. That
being said, if he stops by to chat about other things, you can guess he
is at least somewhat interested in getting to know you.
*He holds your gaze a little bit too long
If he holds eye contact with you for longer than he normally does,
you may want to respond by also looking into his eyes for a split second
longer than normal.
*He compliments you
If a man starts noticing and complimenting you on your appearance –
your new haircut, skirt or earrings – on a regular basis, you know you
have got his attention.
*He initiates having lunch
Spending time together at work is always risky since coworkers may
begin to gossip. If a man initiates lunch with you, even casually, there
is a good chance he is interested in testing the waters and seeing if
you are potential dating material. Just use caution and read over your
work rules if you consider going out with him.
*After the first date or two
 You have gone out once or twice, and you’re wondering if this
relationship is going to go anywhere.
Here are some signs he likes your style and is interested in seeing
more of you.
*He calls when he says he
will and doesn’t cancel dates
A man who’s interested in you will call you when he promises and will
be eager to go out on his next date with you.
He may not call often, though, as he might not want to appear
overeager or desperate.
*It is obvious he put effort
into planning the date
A man will put in effort if he cares about impressing you. He will
remember what food you like and what you like to do, and he will spend
time on his appearance.
*He makes plans with you
in advance
A man who is interested in you will realize that you have a life.
He’ll want to schedule a date with you instead of waiting until the last
minute.
*He is patient with you regarding
how physical you want to be
Look for a man who is patient and considerate. If a man is willing to
let you set the pace, it proves he wants to see where the relationship
is headed.
- life123.com
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