(Circles of Fire)
Agni Chakra (Chapter 8)
By
Kathleen Jayawardena
Translated by Ranga Chandrarathne and Edited
by Indeewara Thilakarathne
"I never thought even in my wildest dreams that you would ...do such
a thing to a young girl like that ...!"
That indistinct sound should come not from Shantha but from a spirit.
That face disfigured by bitter crying, was dreadful even to look at. A
fierce shriek came as she, who cried bitterly like a she-bear, attempted
to suppress it; it was similar to the sound of suffocating that emanated
from the throat.
Overwhelmed
by immense fear, sadness and repentance, I lay down on the bed gazing at
the ceiling fan without making any attempt either to wipe out Shantha's
tears or to console her. What could I do now? I pleaded with her and
apologised to her. What I could not do was to worship her at her feet.
My every attempt at consoling her only intensified her weeping without
offering any space for reconciliation.
"Oh my god...I woke up at the right time..."
" No, you woke up at the worst time", I should have told. It was my
firm belief. Later, I thought if Shantha had not woken up at that
moment, the dark line that drew across our lives would not have been so
ugly. I never thought in my wildest dreams either to carry on a long
term relationship with Senthamarai or to crown her in my utopia.
On numerous occasions, I thought of handing over her to her father.
During the last week, I was trying to find a rationale to expel
Senthamarai. Many times, I warned myself that if I carried on this
unusual affaire with Senthamarai, it would lead to acute depression. The
unspeakable nature of the affaire was not a secret for me. But I sought
her company again unlike a grasshopper lured into a flame until it burnt
down.
"Oh my god....why did you do this to me...?"
I was speechless. I had got nothing to tell her. What would I tell if
I spoke my heart out?
"You should not bother much about it...There is nothing so serous
about it...That's life...a moment in life; only a spur of time...you
should not allow the life to be ruined because of that moment...how
could it be justified? We should identify this impulse ...we could not
stop the continuity of that impulse ...people change... day by
day...moment by moment... I am not the same person today as I was
yesterday...I will not be the same tomorrow... this union would not be
everlasting...on the other, hand did only our bodies marry? Why should
we be enticed to the body you identified as an aggregate of five
elements? Why should we assign higher values only to certain organs in
the body? ...all the organs are the same; yes...all of them are the
same; won't hand and foot carry more value than that...our ties and
friendship? "
That's all I have got to tell her. But what would Shantha come out
with if I revealed that stark truth? She would think that I was speaking
nonsense. Sometimes, her tender body would get enough strength to slap
me. Would she be able to accept that condition with awareness?
Now, Shantha was silent. She laid at the edge on the double-bed on
the opposite side. Though the weeping had stopped, her agonising sighs
could still be heard.
With closed eyes, I was listening. Senthamarai made no sound. She
might be fast asleep. What a relief it would if one is insensitive?
I was shaken by the cry of a crow. Was it about to dawn? Would the
maiden rays of the sun sweep the room in a moment? There is a saying
"Night is longer for one who does not sleep ". Now my hope was also
that. I hoped that the sun would dawn late. It was the darkness that
light lamps for me at the moment as I curse the light.
Why did Shantha get up in the middle of the night? I knew that she
did suspect either me or Senthamarai. But she would have tiptoed.
Otherwise I could hear 'creek', the sound made by her rubber slippers. I
spent similar moments with intense awareness: at such moments my eyes
and ears were sharp and sensitive. Then how could this happen? I was
clueless until Shantha switched on the light...why had it happened?
Could it be called 'unfortunate happening'?
Following the incident, Shantha never raised this matter again with
me. But I thought that she often came out with stories hinting at
duplicity of men and made sarcastic remarks.
Though I remembered that Shantha had a habit of classifying men on
these lines even before the marriage, I now heard them as double-edged
remarks. I always tried to convince myself that those remarks were not
aimed at me and that business had normalised.
Though our attempt at behaving as normal as possible was commendable,
both of us suffered a lot from restlessness resulting from self-control.
This restlessness did not develop into a retreat as it grew up gradually
like cancer cells.
But I noticed the marks of feelings in Shantha's eyes that I had
committed an offense or had betrayed her. Thereafter, I felt that these
feelings would be spreading in like cancer cells. Though I knew that
these feelings would end up in disaster I could not gather myself to
tell her about it. As I failed on many occasions to look straight into
her eyes, I was not used to express myself to her.
I often thought of leisurely discussing with her the 'culture' and
'convention' which led to thoughts that brought about this unfortunate
situation. Unfortunately those thoughts arose in me either in transit or
at the university. At last, I thought of explaining everything in a
letter to her. But it turned out to be of disjointed thoughts. When I
read it for the second time, I felt it was a diatribe commenced in the
middle and ended halfway through:
"Yes, we are married; but what is a marriage? It is an institution.
An institution is made up of rules. They are rigid. But you are not
rigid; you are tender, smooth and innocent which qualities are the
ornaments that beautify you. But remember that; you were born for you
and me for myself.
The contract of marriage unifies two worlds; two cultures. Our
upbringings are different and therefore, we are strangers. Let us
understand this. Our feelings and sensations are varied. Our bodies
behave in accordance with them. We should pass our days leisurely
without taking much burden on our bodies. Men are all the same; all are
alike. But let us understand the diversity in that unity. Our thoughts
and the behavioural patterns are different... that's the truth. That
isn't called 'duality '!. You consider it 'duality' when you are full of
hatred and jealousy. Why can't we interpret this as 'dualistic
performance' of our bodies..? Why should 'dualistic performance' be
turned into a 'dual '? Isn't it a tragedy? If life is long, we should
have enough time, amid numerous odds, to analyse problems. But it is not
so... life span is very short; if counted its only two digits.
'Let's understand this. Then, why should we make life a struggle? Why
should we make it a farce? I tell you these things as you have got
intellectual capacity to understand them all. Let's forget everything.
What has happened cannot be undone? Despite all, I still love you. Isn't
it enough? "
When I read this letter written in blurred handwriting, I experienced
strongly a disgusting sense of self-defeat and shame. I tore the paper
into pieces. What I was most ashamed of was the ending of the letter: 'I
still love you'.
Thereafter, I questioned myself whether I really loved Shantha.
Though I could not identify such a romantic feeling in me, I
subconsciously felt that there might be such feelings. I wondered
whether I might be sad if Shantha died. A pang splashed in me. I
understood that her death will definitely sadden me and cause
repentance.
But...?
Is one's pain at another's death an indication that one who is living
had loved the one who died? |