Why supermen don’t produce super-sons
Once a pretty woman told Oscar Wilde, “With your brains and my
beauty, what wonderful sons we could have.” Pat came the reply. “Quite,
madam, but suppose they had your brains and my beauty!”
The brief conversation between the pretty woman and one of the giants
of English literature brings us face to face with a universal problem:
Do sons inherit their father’s brains?
We cannot deny that most sons resemble their fathers in physical
appearance. However, how many sons have inherited their fathers’
characteristics or talents? If you look at the eminent men in many
spheres of life, you will realise that they have not produced equally
eminent sons. Anyone combing the pages of history will be struck by the
revelation that exceptional men have not been equalled by their sons.
However, there are a few exceptions.
William Pitt and his son achieved the highest office in the British
Parliament in the 1700s. Historians regard it as a rare occurrence.
Another example is Johann Strauss who was well known for his waltzes.
However, his son outshone his father by becoming the Waltz King in his
era. Such occurrences in which sons inherit their fathers’ talents are
rare indeed.
Appearance
Although physical qualities and appearances can be passed down to the
next generation, history does not support the view that talents too can
be inherited by the sons of eminent men. Sports enthusiasts will recall
that Collin Cowdrey’s son Chris and Sir Leonard Hutton’s son Richard
could not match the batting talent of their fathers. A brief look at the
business world will show that even the sons of business magnates have
not inherited their fathers’ talents. Even Edsel who took over the
business from Henry Ford could not match his father’s talents.
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Sigmund Freud: Children manifest
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History is full of accounts of great men’s sons veering off in some
totally different directions. The sons of eminent authors here and
abroad have taken up professions which have nothing to do with the
printed word. Some of them have done well in the business world, but
they have not earned the reputation their fathers had enjoyed. On the
other hand, some of the sons of eminent men have become social misfits.
For instance, war-time hero Winston Churchill’s son, popularly known as
“Also Randolph”, could not get himself elected as a Member of
Parliament. Even the son of eminent author Malcolm Muggeridge ended up
as a cleaner in a bakery.
Some sons of great fathers have become drug addicts, ruining their
whole lives. For instance, Robert Kennedy’s son David died of an
overdose of cocaine mixed with barbiturates. On the other hand, certain
sons carefully avoided their fathers’ sphere of influence. Unable to
become a politician like his father, Ronald Reagan’s son eventually
became a ballet dancer and then a journalist. Lord Snowdon’s son
Viscount “Chips” Linley became a humble carpenter and then a furniture
designer.
Natural law
Psychologists have racked their brains to ascertain the reason why
supermen do not produce super-sons. Sometimes they wonder whether there
is a natural law that ensures sons of great men do not become equally
great. The natural law, sometimes known as “regression”, does not allow
ultra-bright fathers to produce brighter sons.
Another reason why great fathers do not produce equally great sons is
that most eminent men are not effective parents. When they try to climb
the social ladder, they have to sacrifice their family. As a result,
sons get neglected by their fathers. A father who becomes a celebrity
feels that the whole world is at his feet. Thus he forgets that his son
needs his undivided attention. Bing Crosby once admitted that he had
failed as a father by not giving his son adequate attention.
Most sons find it difficult to put up with great fathers who are
always in the limelight. For instance, eminent Russian novelist Leo
Tolstoy’ long-suffering wife had to copy War and Peace nine times in
long hand. No son would have agreed to perform such a tedious task.
Oedipus complex
Celebrated psychoanalyst Sigmund Freud analysed the problem in depth
and traced it to Oedipus Complex in which children manifest erotically
tinged desires for their other gender parents. Such desires were often
accompanied by feelings of hostility towards their same-gender parents.
The name for this unusual syndrome was taken from the Greek myth in
which Oedipus is separated from his parents at birth. Not knowing the
identity of his real parents, Oedipus inadvertently kills his father and
marries his mother.
Probably, the last word has not yet been spoken on why great men do
not produce eminent sons. It remains a fascinating study for
psychologists and others who are interested in the human race and its
progress.
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