Happiness revolves around the job you love
As
a business leader, I interact with many people who often want to know if
they are in the right job. I tell them that the answer is in them and
your answer is in you too. Your inner feeling never lies. What you
should do next, is there, waiting for you. This feeling being based more
on job satisfaction, the question is, does it give the right returns.
After all we all want a satisfying job with the right pay.
Career
One of the biggest career challenges is the ability to read your
inner feeling when direction is needed. For example, how can you listen
to what your heart says is the right career move when you are stressed
and busy? How can you uncover what you're supposed to be doing next when
you have a job to get to every day, children to take care of, and loved
ones you want to spend time with? There is too much to do isn't it?
Making time for you does not have to be hours at a time. Just enough
time to give you clarity about your career.
Career dreams
You can spend five minutes in the morning before you get out of bed.
You can spend five minutes while you are in the shower, or 10 minutes
while you are driving or riding to work. The goal is not how long, but
what you do with the time you have. If you clear your mind for a few
minutes each day, over time, the answers you are seek will come to you.
Unless, you make time to listen to your inner voice and spend time on
your goals, your goals will get lost. Your career dreams vanish. What
you want in your career becomes a blur. You know what you are doing in
your career is not the right thing for you any more, but you don't know
how to go about finding something different. You blame yourself. If only
you were smart, creative and talented, then a great career would come
your way.
A great career is possible, but not without your conscious
participation and consideration. Until you decide to take a better step,
the action necessary to make this happen cannot begin. There are always
reasons to stay where you are. The money is good. The job market is
tough.
What you know is better than what you don't know. Or, is it? It's
actually harder to stay in a bad situation than to work towards
happiness. Listen to your inner voice. If it says it's time to act, then
listen to it. Decide that today is the day your career begins to change
for the better.
Moving forward
It takes courage to move forward in your career. What happens if you
are wrong? What about the people in your life who will tell you, "I told
you so". But, what happens if you are right? Maybe the answer you have
been hearing is there for a reason. Maybe you are meant to do something
different.
Maybe you have done all you can where you are and you are supposed to
go somewhere else so you can make the difference you are always talking
about. How will you know if you do not try? Tell yourself again and
again that you can - until you believe it. There is no job in the world
that will completely satisfy each and every aspect of a job.
Action
Do you know if your next career move is going to work out or not? No
one knows at the beginning. All you know is what feels right inside you.
If you move towards what feels right and move away from what feels
wrong, you will be happy. You will have more optimism and energy. The
light at the end of the tunnel will start to appear.
Taking the first step is always the hardest, but know that the steps
get easier over time. Action brings action. The right career moves are
in you. They will work out if you take the path you know you are
supposed to take.
Your peak demand is limited to about 20 years; say from 25-45 years.
This is when you must get the best returns. If the present place doesn't
offer you the best isn't it better to explore other avenues? What do you
say? Demand is limited and you only have one life to live, so it might
as well be a life you love through the job you love. But change only if
you have a rational reason to change not an emotional one. |