To smile or not
by Lakmal Welabada
"I rarely smile. That would have been the only set back that lead me
to lose the crown. But I'm really happy for what I've got, and would
congratulate Shayana, 'Ms.Lanka 2007' whole heartedly," says Mary
Gwendoleen Peiris, the First-runner-up of 'Ms.Lanka 2007' organised by
the Technique International.
"But
I could remember I smiled when I won. I must thank to the panel of
judges for giving me good marks," she says. "I did Kandyan dancing. And
in this dancing mode, we have to control our facial impressions so that
we rarely even beam. That might have been the reason I do not smile so
often," she says.
Q: But you became second only to
Shayana. It seemed it was not that much of a set back.
Mary : Yes. I even won 'Ms.Body Beautiful' and 'Ms.Congeniality' sub
titles as well.
Q : What are the qualities sought
after for the title 'Congeniality'?
Mary : Pleasantness, friendliness and the ability to work together
sharing and co-operating with others. I think
I've had it a lot. Chathurika ('Ms.Sunday Observer') and I were the
most mischievous out of all the girls at the competition. Even the
Technique International team used to wait until I arrived to have fun.
I'm really thank for everybody for assisting and giving me the chance to
come up.
Mary is still a 20-year-old with sharp eyes and clear mid-complexion.
She studied at St.Anthony's Convent, Mutwal. "I'm the eldest in my
family. My father, Ensten Peiris is a Seaman and my mother Rasika is a
housewife.
My only younger brother who excels in athletics. I played Netball.
Since Year 6, I did Kandyan dancing, and even had taken part in the All
Island competitions as well. I play all the eastern musical instruments
including 'Geta Beraya', 'Thammattama' and the flute," she says.
Mary is an artist too. She has won many art competitions. "I do a bit
of fabric painting as well," she smiles.
'Ms.Lanka 2007' was not the first beauty contest she has taken part.
When she first took part in one of such was when she was in the nursery
school.
She won the second place due to the same factor - 'no smile on the
face'... "I must change this. I know it's a
draw back in such competitions. Even when I go for a photo shoot, the
photographer waits until I smile. Somebody has to remind me that
(smiles).
But however, it has not a problem for me when mingling with others. I
do not have a lot of friends. But those who are around me know who I am.
I'm frank and would tell whatever I have to say to one's face. I hate
injustice," she claims.
After my A/Ls Mary joined the Call Centre of Seylan Bank. At present
she works as the Customer Care Executive and Credit Officer at Abans. "I
really appreciate the assistance given by my parents and my boss,
Mrs.Thilini Dassanayaka," says Mary.
"My parents decide almost everything for me. And I let it happen.
Even when my boyfriend proposed to me I asked him to talk with my
parents.
Even my clothes, shoes and jewellery are decided by parents. They
know what suit me best. I'm not only convenient over it, but also feels
confident. Parents won't do anything to harm their child," she believes.
Since she was a kid, Mary used to get a lot of invitations for
commercials. But it was after her A/Ls that she got permission from her
parents to model. At present she models for Bernie Balasuriya at 'Nuga
Sevana' on Rupavahini.
"I applied for 'Ms.Lanka 2007' at the last moment. My aim was not to
win, but to learn something out of it," she says.
Q : How do you feel as a beauty
queen?
Mary : Nothing special, and lead a normal life as usual. But I pay
little more attention to myself. I refrain from artificial remedies and
stick to natural beauty therapy. I drink a glass of warm water added
with two drops of lemon juice every morning. Natural things like Papaw,
lime and sandlewood are among my beauty ingredients.
I like beauty culture and my ambition is to be a beautician one day.
I believe that in take of fruit juice helps to maintain my natural looks
a lot. Fruits help to keep your skin glowing. It also helps the system
to run healthier.
So one day, I hope to have a fruit juice joint next to my beauty
parlour. A glass of juice is the most ideal thing for whoever that comes
for a beauty therapy.
Q : Any message you like to give to
our readers?
Mary : Be honest and genuine. Find out what's most suitable for you
and get engaged in it. |