Come live with me, and be my love....

Can you define what love really is? It's very hard to give an exact meaning to love. Different people may mean it in different ways. Love , for me, is something that I can feel throughout my life which can heal me at times of adversity. May I received from my family and friends which we call affection, and also be from a fiance which is varied from the above.

Love from a fiance is a tinge of feelings. It consists of amour and pure love in the same quantity. Sensual love is always exciting and heart throbbing which human beings are uniquely blessed with. Love is a phenomenon, everyone is amazed and is expressed at least once in a life time. When some one is in love it really gives thrilling experience.

Love...love, which is forever spoken...People will never stop speaking about love. Love existed from the dawn of the history of mankind.It's still there, it will last till the dooms day, the end of the world.

Lovers cannot see

" Love is blind, and lovers cannot see

The pretty follies that themselves commit"

Shakespeare- Merchant of Venice

Why do the wise say that lovers are blind? Are they visually handicapped? When love prevails in a person's life, everything to that person is love. The every sight he sees is his lover's, the every sound hears is of his lover's. Every thought which flows into mind is adorable feelings of his lover.

That is what magical love is..No one is able to get rid of that heart throbbing and electrified feelings of love. Because it occurs naturally. It's a pleasurable experience to swim in the ocean of love than tasting thousand flakes of candies. Love is sweeter than that. You might know the relish of love better than me, perhaps. Love is indiscribabale. the space here won't be enough if I've got to explain what love is and how a person feels when he is in love....

The above verse of Shakespeare becomes true when a person is in love. He can see, he can think, he can work....but with his lover always in mind and distracted by the thoughts of the lover. Some decisions made by a person who is in love cannot always be correct because he is mentally blind and trying harder to save his love which ranks higher than everything in his life.

Tears of love

Haven't you ever shed a single tear for the sake of love. If someone is ready to love and to be loved should be able to bear the pain when it's broken off. No one on earth starts an affair with the intention of tasting the bitterness of separation at the end.

Some times we are not able to marry the person we are really in love with. There may be various reasons for that. Parents often seemed to put a big protest when they get to know that their child is in love with a person who doesn't suit the family.

When parents have to exhibit their dissatisfaction it might finally cause agony to the broken hearted.

Lovers may feel awful when the person he or she loves left him or her. It's a tragedy. Some lovers seemed to be mentally downtrodden and may have to face kind of mental trauma. They perhaps tend to commit suicide in the name of their lover.

Some might remain single throughout their life as a sacrifice for their love. Ruining one's life for the sake of one person who does no longer love that person is a silly act. Because the person may find a better partner later in life. Some people are very strong and easily get rid of the after effects of breaking off his/her lover.

These after effects are very dangerous, because it can ruin the present happiness in a person and make one's life miserable.

When some strong people are faced with a similar situation of similar nature they won't be disconsolate and waste his/her life, they say " If she/he doesn't need me, why should I be bothered.

True that I loved him/her, but no more, because he/she left me. I believe I'll meet a better partner someday who will love me and won't give me pain" How wise is the person who thinks that way. It's hard to find a person who could marry their first love. " First love is a kind of vaccination which saves a man from catching the complaint a second time".Honore De Balzac.

Why worry over split milk? If your lover doesn't need your precious love that he/ she had been blessed with for a period of time, that's nothing but his/ her bad luck. That person may not be the ideal partner in your life. Ideal partner is yet to come.

How folly it is to cry over split milk. It's like you're trying to send back the mother's milk in to the bladder. If you have to face such a situation in life simply forget the person and involve in some other things which will help you to get rid of such unpleasant feelings.

"Love doesn't grow on trees like apples in Eden - It's something you have to make. And you must use your imagination to make it too, just like anything else. It's all work, work". Joyce Cary.

"Love is like measles; you can get it only once, and the later in life it occurs the tougher it gets". - Josh Billings