M. H. Mohamed
With the numerous articles of very sincere and most deepest
appreciations of my revered maternal uncle. I have been inspired to also
write and express my profound and deep feelings on his demise.
He passed away peacefully on May 26, which incidentally was my 57th
wedding anniversary.
The bond with my uncle grew from my formative days, where we grew up
together and brings to mind fond memories. My late elder brother Fahmy
and I had the privilege of entertaining him when he came to England.
When he visited England, while he
was
the Mayor of Colombo, a year after my marriage to my wife Jean, we
discussed with him about a spiritual elder we knew, who was living in
Grosvenor Square in Hyde Park.
My uncle was keen to meet him and we arranged for a meeting. At this
meeting this spiritual elder referred to uncle as a special person and
said he was much loved by his late father.
He told uncle that he would have a long and healthy life and will
always achieve high political recognition in his home country.
He also told him since he was gifted with a ‘special’ life, he should
at all times follow the religion and help the followers of the religion,
more than what his political positions warranted.
This spiritual elder said my uncle’s religious relevance was more
important to him than his political life and achievements. This was
perhaps the commencement of his contribution to the Muslims.
When I returned to Sri Lanka in May 1965 to assume duties as his
first private secretary in the Ministry of Labour Employment and
Housing, he was requested by the then Prime Minister, Dudley Senanayake
M.P. to overlook and attend to the religious affairs of the Muslims.
It became my task to assist him to draft documents on the performance
of Haj by the Sri Lankans and their visiting Mecca and Medina in Saudi
Arabia.
The Haj Committee of the YMMA and other bodies were duly recognised
and formalised.
My late father Haji M.A. Razak and his his closest colleague M. Falil
A. Caffoor M.P., were included as members as they were providing the
travel passages and facilitating the groups each year for the
performance of Haj.
Having moved closely, I found that as he had some special
protection, whatever matter he handled, he was successful and richly
rewarded. During trade union disputes and strikes, his dealing with
leaders of various trade unions was made simple.
The reawakening of the World Muslim Congress in Karachi by the
dynamic efforts of the late Dr. Hajji Inamullah Khan and the late Grand
Mufti His Holiness Amin al~Hussaini was one such meeting and my father
introduced my Uncle to Dr. Haji Inamullah Khan when he visited Sri
Lanka.
This introduction opened many doors to Islamic connections and
contacts in Pakistan, Saudi Arabia, Libya, Iraq, Egypt, Syria, Kuwait,
Yemen, Dubai, Malaysia, Indonesia, Philippines and East Pakistan and
other places.The late Dr. Haji Inamullah Khan appointed my uncle to the
World Muslim Congress {Motamar} and they were inducted as founder
members of the World Muslim League {Rabitha} in the Royal Kingdom of
Saudi Arabia.
With these connections, my uncle opened Sri Lanka to Islamic nations.
I am certain that his demise will create a void and I hope and pray
that this will be resolved soon to continue the excellent work he did
over the past six decades.
I visited him regularly, when I visited Sri Lanka. During his tenure
as Speaker, he visited us in New Zealand. I made his visit an important
occasion as the Maori in New Zealand officially welcomed him in the City
of Rotorua. He was also taken on the Lake of Rotorua. He was the first
overseas Speaker to receive this honour. My wife and I and my family
were honoured by his visit to New Zealand.
I always considered my uncle a ‘Moomin’, because during his
lifetime, he acted in a noble and revered manner.
I am convinced that he has been richly rewarded with Jennathul
Firdhous.
Mohamed Iqbal
Innocent Fernando
This may sound like a eulogy in part, but it is hopefully much more
than that. It is intended as an appreciation of the life of an
exceptional human being; someone who was a dedicated public servant,
good sportsman, a much sought after friend to many, a doting husband to
my mother and above all a loving and caring father. Other than reading
up on a Pope bearing that name and a good Nigerian athlete of the 90s, I
cannot recall coming across anyone bearing the name of my father,
Innocent (Fernando) and the name suited him.
His
father was a modestly successful businessman and his mother a housewife.
My father grew up with three other brothers with a major part of his
early education at St. Mary’s College in Negombo. He was a very good
footballer at school and natural progression saw him play for the
Jupiters Football club of Negombo, which was the only outstation club to
challenge the might of the Colombo based ones in the 50s and 60s. I
recall him telling me, when I was quite young, that he had missed out on
national selection by a mere whisker but was gracious and modest enough
to point out to me the man whom he could not outdo as a forward, a York
club footballer. True honesty was a lifelong ideal to which he lived up
to and passed on to his two sons.
He then joined a Kachcheri office in Puttalam and while serving there
applied for and got the opportunity of working at the Ministry of
Foreign Affairs, around 1962. And as they say, there was no turning back
for him.Messrs. Sir Razik Fareed, W. T. Jayasinghe, H.M.G.S.
Palihakkarra were some of the stalwarts of Sri Lanka’s diplomatic corps
whom he worked with while honoraries A.C.S. Hameed, Ranjan Wijeratne and
the incomparable Lakshman Kadirgamar headed the ministry at various
stages of his illustrious career.
A few days after my father’s passing, when Mr.Palihakkara paid a
visit,he told us something we did not know. We got to know that my
father had been quite emotional on some burning issues concerning
foreign relations and would even go on to press his superiors to take
immediate action whenever the situation got serious. I knew he was a
tireless and passionate public servant and never reneged on his duty. So
rarely did he take time off work that I am quite certain my mother would
not have been all that pleased. But we were acutely aware of his
dedication and loyalty to the foreign ministry and his work. He served
in Pakistan, India, Malaysia, Switzerland and Canada on long term stints
but was called on and off for delegate visits to South East Asia,
Australia and even in Sicily, Italy. I remember that we were quite
alarmed when he said he was going to Sicily, not once but twice for a
difficult court case during the height of the ethnic crisis. Long after
he had retired and by then physically less comfortable, he still pined
to be back at work at the ministry or related and it was only our
intervention that prevented him from doing so. Of course we were not
inclined to see him take a fall or something worse in trying to commute
daily to work. So he continued with his lifelong passion - reading up on
current and world affairs. He also would called up his former superiors
and colleagues and either reminisce or get word on developments.
As a truly loving and caring father he gave my brother and myself
life lessons that formed the very core of our growing up years. Honesty
and modesty were ingrained in us early in addition to respect and care
for all human beings be of any walk of life. Even after he was well into
retirement and in his 70s, whenever I took time off work, he would
inquire well before my superiors got to know, why I would be at home and
not at work.
I then had to explain to him that either I was unwell or I had to
attend to a domestic matter. He then would want to know whether I had
informed my office. Such had been his loyalty to his duty that he wanted
his sons also to abide by the wonderful, highly esteemed code of
responsibility he had aspired for and lived up to throughout his
remarkable career and indeed his life.
The lasting memory I will have of him would be of him humming songs
of CT Fernando and his ilk, to himself, for he was a very good social
get-together singer. He also loved listening to Jim Reeves, Nana
Mouskouri, Boney M and those great Hindi singers of the 50s and 60s.
Innocent Fernando was indeed a man for all seasons to my family and I
am certain to his relatives and many friends. As one of our very close
family friends said to me, “ A chapter in our lives has come to an end
”. We will always miss our dear father who was a shining light to all of
us. The emptiness that we feel can never be filled except by the
wonderful memories he left behind. Quoting a few lines from a Jim Reeves
rendered gospel classic he loved;
“ Across the bridge there’s no more sorrow
Across the bridge there’s no more pain
The sun will shine across the river
And you’ll never be unhappy again ”
Farewell dear father till we meet again. May his soul rest in peace
in the haven of God.
- Roshan Fernando
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