I hope you kept the receipt
by Tim Knox
Shopping shouldn't be this much of a chore, I told myself, especially
since I only had one person to shop for and that was my wife.
I stopped in front of the large directory that listed every store in
the mall. I'm a fairly intelligent man, I thought as my eyes went up and
down the listing of shops. Surely I can think of the perfect gift for
the most important woman in my life. How hard can it be? Look at all
these stores...clothes... sporting goods.... shoes... toys... jewellery....
Why do men have such a difficult time shopping for women? I think
it's because we know that no matter what we buy, no matter how much
thought we put into it, no matter how cool we think it is, and no matter
how much she pretends to like it at first, nine times out of ten it's
going back to the store.
I wish I had a nickel for every time I've heard, "This is really
nice, honey. You did keep the receipt, didn't you?"
The cavemen had it right. Back then a man would just kill the first
thing that came along (that didn't kill him), then drag it home and
present it to his woman. And the woman was glad to get it, by golly,
even if she did have to skin and clean it herself! There was no return
policy in one billion, BC, my friends. Who said these people were
primitive? I think they were brilliant!
Men are easy to buy for. Just get us the two things we never buy for
ourselves: socks and underwear. Even though they are the basic building
blocks of every man's wardrobe, we men never buy socks and underwear
because we believe the socks and underwear we currently have will never
wear out.
We'll wear a pair of drawers until there's nothing left but an
elastic waistband and one leg hole. And we'll wear a pair of socks until
all that remains is the ring that fits around our ankles. Ask any man
and he'll tell you, if it wasn't for Christmas and birthdays, most of us
guys would be running around au natural.
I get socks and underwear every Christmas, always from my eighty year
old aunt who long ago staked the claim to purchasing such items for the
men in the family. "Don't anybody get the boys socks and underwear for
Christmas," she says every year around Thanksgiving. "That's my
department."
This "dibs on drawers" arrangement worked fine until last Christmas,
when, instead of getting my usual white Fruit-of-the-Looms, I opened the
box to find a plastic, foot-long tube stuffed with multicolored pieces
of cloth so small that wearing them would probably send the average male
into fits of testicular shock.
I smiled and thanked her graciously, even made a comment about how
good I looked in tiger print stripes. To myself, however, I was thinking
that there were two words that should never occupy the same label:
"men's" and "bikini."
As fate would have it, I found myself standing outside the ultimate
women's underwear store (that's what a sign in the window said).
Underwear, now there's a thought. Everybody needs underwear. Even my
wife! Maybe things were going to turn out okay after all!
I took a minute to muster my courage before going in. I lack the
confidence to just walk right into such a store as Victoria's Secret. I
was going to have to build up to this, take a few practice steps, a few
deep breaths.
Finally, with my hands in my pockets and a determined look on my
face, I stepped across the threshold and entered Sexy Underwear Land.
I had barely made it past the display of miracle bras before
realizing that I was making a terrible mistake. Surrounded by black
teddies and skimpy nightgowns and these lace-up boostie things with a
French name I won't even attempt to spell, I knew I wasn't going to give
my wife any of this stuff! I just didn't have the guts.
"This is real funny, last minute man," she'd say with a scowl. "Now,
where's my real gift?"
I headed for the door, but before I could make good my escape, a
perky, young woman whose name tag identified her as "Bambi" stepped into
the aisle and stopped me with a smile. I was probably old enough to be
Bambi's dad, but that didn't stop her from wanting to discuss women's
underwear with me.
"Shopping for your wife?" Bambi asked with a gleam in her eye. She
held up one of those boostie French things and waved it in front of my
face. "Maybe she'd like one of these."
"I don't think so," I muttered nervously. For some reason I couldn't
look Bambi in the eyes. Instead, I stared at the floor like a kid caught
looking at dirty magazines and dug my toe in the carpet. "I was thinking
about getting her a tackle box, actually."
"We have more traditional items over there," Bambi said. "Maybe she'd
like a nice robe and a nightgown." She smiled knowingly, then moved in a
little closer and lowered her voice. "And you know, we have a very
liberal return policy."
I left Victoria's Secret with my arms full of boxes and one heck of a
dent in my credit card, but it was worth it because my Christmas
shopping was done and I had Bambi's personal guarantee that my wife was
going to love everything I bought. No, I did not buy frilly underwear or
a bra guaranteed to perform miracles. I was more practical than that,
though I did get her one of those boostie French things I was talking
about. You know, as a joke.
I made one more stop on my way out of the mall. I went into this
store without hesitation, without embarrassment. I marched right up to
the counter like I owned the place and ordered for the biggest bottle of
shampoo they had.
Just in case Bambi was wrong! |