'Doing justice is not taking revenge'
by Samangie WETTIMUNY
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Ven. Ajahn Brahmavamso
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Q: We come across different types of people in society. Some are
popular and their company is always sought after. Some are not so. What
meritorious acts should people indulge in during this birth to be reborn
as popular in their next birth?
In an interview with the Sunday Observer, Ven. Ajahn Brahmavamso
Thera, abbot of the Bodhinyana Monastery, Australia elaborated on the
teachings of the Dhamma emphasising on the value of forgiveness.
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A: If you are to be reborn as a person who is popular, a person who
is adored by all, you should be extremely generous. For example you
should always engage in meritorious deeds - you should give dhana to
monks, you have to be generous to your friends, parents and relatives.
You have to reach out for them whenever your assistance is required.
Your mother may need a lift to go to the market or your friend would
need your help as his child is sick. Such people who are generous with
their time, and resources, who can share and forgive others would become
very popular in their next birth.
Q:During the period of the Buddha there were kings who imposed
severe punishments on wrong-doers. Did the rulers have to face the
consequences of their decisions? Did the Buddha interfere with the rules
of government.
A: No, He did not. He advised the government. But people had so much
faith in the Buddha that even a king who went to war could still be
reborn in heaven like what happened to King Bimbisara. Even though they
executed many people and waged wars, they never went to hell. Why was
that? The reason is because they had enough faith in the Buddha, Dhamma
and the Sangha. They knew how to forgive.
Q: To forgive themselves?
A: People do not realise the power of forgiveness. In Buddhism there
is a `hell' world. Who sends you to hell? Yourself. Any psychologist
would tell you the mental trauma and guilt a person undergoes if he
commits a wrong deed. He/she would require years of psychotherapy to get
over the guilt. So why do we have to be the one who `teaches them a
lesson'.
But if you know the power of forgiveness, you can forgive anything -
you can forgive others for their faults or you can forgive your own
faults. You do not need a Jesus to forgive you. A Buddha cannot forgive
you. The only person who can grant forgiveness is yourself. Buddha
always encouraged forgiveness. He was a compassionate teacher. Even when
people tried to kill him he forgave them immediately and taught them
Dhamma and all his assailants ultimately became his disciples. That is
the power of forgiveness. Let go of your past and free yourself. No need
to go to hell again.
We do not have punishment in Buddhism. You only punish yourself. You
have to understand in forgiveness and let it go. So I think the kings
had understood that. They had realized that in their positions they had
to do that. That was part of their job. So they forgave themselves. And
tried not to act out of illwill. Even the president of Sri Lanka, a
devout Buddhist has been waging a war against the Tamil Tigers.
Q: Some people who had been addicted to lots of unethical activities
during their youth would tend to compensate for those acts by engaging
in meritorious deeds towards the latter part of their lives. Is it
possible?
A: They can. If they can let it all go they can change their whole
lives. Just consider this example. When Nelson Mandela took over the
presidency of South Africa after serving 27 years in prison the country
was in chaos. Grave crimes had been committed by both the government and
the ANC activists. Nelson Mandela instituted a novel way of dealing with
the situation by establishing the Truth and Reconciliation Commission.
Anybody on either side who had committed a crime could go to this
Commission, confess honestly on what they had done. If they confess they
were given amnesty.
On one of these occasions a South African policeman was confessing
how he tortured and killed a Black African activist. In front of him was
this activist's widow listening to his confession in which he mentioned
in detail how he had tortured and killed the man she loved, the father
of her children, the person she devoted her whole life to. The policeman
was still shivering in fear and was sobbing even after the testimony was
over. At this point the widow o stood up and approached this man, not to
take revenge as many would have thought,but instead held the man, gave
him a hug and said. "I forgive you."
It was such a moving moment, a beautiful act of forgiveness that the
whole court started crying. A woman who just heard how her husband whom
she loved dearly was taken away from her, how he was tortured and
brutally murdered, had the inspiration to go up to the `criminal' and
forgive him. If she can forgive the man who killed her husband why
cannot you forgive who have done a much lesser wrong deed.
Q: But did not she do injustice to the deceased by forgiving his
killer?
A: Injustice is not same as revenge. Sometimes people confuse finding
justice with having revenge. That is not the way to do justice. Justice
means finding the truth, having the just settlement, and move forth, not
to carrying around the past.
Otherwise the world would be like Israel and the Gaza Strip. Endless
wars, tit for tat - killings, revenge, and seeking a violent form of
justice rather than two parties coming together, hugging each other and
saying "I forgive you".
That is how a conflict should end. That is how we say to ourselves
one day that whatever I have done in my youth, whatever I am doing now I
forgive myself. That is justice and let it go. If you acknowledge what
you did and learn from it, it is called `growth' in the Buddha's
teaching. That is how you grow.
Q: But an ordinary person may find it very difficult to forgive
others even though they may forgive themselves. Is it because our minds
are not advanced enough?
A: It is because our society does not encourage forgiveness. This is
a society which encourages revenge, which punishes wrong doers by
sending them to jail. There they continue with their wrong deeds. The
penal system of punishment has proved not to work worldwide. What is
required is a penal system of rehabilitation - treating the ones who
have committed crimes as being ill or not seeing things properly and
treating them as an illness instead of punishing them as a crime. That
is the way forward.
In many western countries, the number of prisoners in jail are on the
rise. That means the present penal system of punishing the wrongdoers
does not work.
They are punished, not rehabilitated. They need care, not anger. I am
telling once again that real justice has nothing to do with revenge.
Justice is healing a problem, solving the difficulties and moving on.
Q: Capital punishment should not be imposed?
A: Even the Buddha's suggestion was to do away with it. He saw it
more than 2550 years ago. It does not work. No punishment. Healing,
care, rehabilitation should be the key words.
If you make a mistake you should never punish yourself, nor should
you punish your husband if he misbehaves. You have to find out what the
problem is.
Q: Then won't he continue to misbehave?
A: That is his kamma. Your kamma is to forgive him. It is not just
forgiving, but finding a strategy.
What's the problem? Together you work out the problem and together
you find a solution. Forgiveness is not just saying `never mind', but
making an attempt to stop the reasons which cause the difficulty. So
rehabilitation is necessary.
Q: There are religions which require sacrifices of animals in the
name of their respective Gods. They kill animals to please God. What is
your opinion about such religions?
A: This is where religions tell you what to believe. Those are the
religions which run on fear. They have no place in our modern world.
Religions which do not run on fear, but on wisdom would tell you that
it's bad to kill others for whatever reason.
If anyone says that if you kill yourself for your religion, and that
is going to send you to heaven, I know as a fact that it does not.
If you kill other people, it is a bad, unskilful act. Unfortunately
many religions scare people to believe in them. People don't use their
own intelligence, they do not use reason, they just run on fear. Any
real religion would say that blowing yourself up, in front of others is
unskilled and bad. No way would anyone go to heaven if you kill others.
(The first part of the interview appeared last week.)
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Ajahn Brahmavamso thera was born in London in 1951. At the age of
sixteen he regarded himself as a Buddhist after reading books written on
Buddhism while still being at school. His interest in Buddhism became
intense while studying Theoretical Physics at the Cambridge University.
Upon completion of his degree, after working as a teacher for one
year, he travelled to Thailand to become a monk. He was ordained in
Bangkok at the age of twenty-three by the abbot of Wat Saket.
Afterwards, he spent nine years studying and training in the forest
meditation tradition under Venerable Ajahn Chah thera.
Ajahn Brahm who arrived in Australia in 1983 on the invitation of his
teacher Ajahn Chah to assist in the establishment of a forest monastery
near Perth, Western Australia is now the Abbot of the Bodhinyana
Monastery, Perth and the Spiritual Director of the Buddhist Society of
Western Australia. The Thera's dhamma talks are available on
www.bswa.org.
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