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Mirror to look in

We look at ourselves daily in bathroom mirrors, shop windows, car mirrors and in many more mirrors. How do I look? How is my face? How is my dress? How is my hair? We check our outer appearance and feel happy if we “look good”. But at times even though we do look good we don’t “feel good”. However much we make up our face the feeling inside will give a reflection on the face. If the reflection is not so good we will try hard to keep a smile.

How to check the feelings? What is the mirror for that? Take a look at your thoughts. You will see the mirror of the mind to check your feelings. Are your thoughts positive or negative? It is said you are what you think. So the question is, what you think. Are you aware of what you think?

Think of a time when you were really successful and happy. An incident you felt “yes, I got it.” Now go back the journey. What made you have a successful end. The powerful personality that you carried on ended with a good result, but how did you create a powerful personality?

Can you remember the words you spoke and things you did? Very optimistic and encouraging words with actions full of zeal and enthusiasm would have given you the feeling of that powerful personality. Going into further depth how did your words and actions become so constructive at that particular moment? You must definitely have had very powerful thought about yourself and everything around you.

Thoughts are like seeds from which our feelings, words, actions and habits grow. Positive thoughts will automatically result in positive feelings, words, actions and habits. Negative thoughts will result in negative feelings, words, actions and habits.

Imagine tomorrow as you enter your office you receive a letter of promotion! You will definitely feel thrilled by the news. With that happiness you determine “yes, I can do this”, “I’m capable of this.” Then you accept the promotion with courage and determination. As time goes on even though few ups and downs occur the seed of your future success is already planted. Hence would you ever doubt your bright future?

But if you start with a negative thought like “Oh ! I’m not capable of this, I can’t do this, Someone is trying to give me problems”, you will definitely end up in a mess. Even a sickness can be taken as a curse or a blessing. It’s your wish.

Here are some inspiring thoughts for a smooth life.

1. Remember! you are a unique individual. No one else is like you in the whole world.

2. Don’t compare yourself with anyone else in this whole world.

3. Life laughs at you when you are unhappy, Life smiles at you when you are happy. Life salutes you when you make others happy.

4. Every successful person has a painful story. Every painful story has a successful ending. Accept the pain and get ready for the success.

5. If a problem can be solved there is no need to worry about it. If a problem can’t be solved what is the use of worrying?

So instil the habit of thinking positive in any circumstance.

- Ramyamala

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