Essential tips for approaching women
Smile
Approaching women might make you a bit nervous but don't forget to
smile. First impressions matter. If you walk up to a woman without so
much as a grin, you're either going to look menacing or boring. When you
smile, you look welcoming, inviting and friendly. People will be more
inclined to talk to you and joke with you. If you look sullen and
nervous, people are going to treat you like you're sullen and nervous.
Don't hesitate
The standard rule is that once you've made good eye contact, you
can't wait longer than five seconds to approach a woman. The longer you
wait, the more time you have to psych yourself out. Furthermore, if a
woman notices you staring at her from across the room, you're either
going to creep her out or make her nervous.
Stand up straight
From the moment you approach her, your posture will define you. So
walk up to her slowly and with confidence. Take larger than normal
strides. Keep your chin up and your shoulders back. Be sure to maintain
good posture throughout your introduction and conversation.
Don't interrupt
As much as you want to approach with confidence, you don't want to
come off as conceited or rude. If she's deep in conversation with a
friend or listening to someone else tell a story, don't just barge in
and start talking over everyone. |