Mrs. Elina Jayewardene
Epitome of simplicity,dignity and humility:
Those who were fortunate to have met Mrs. Elina Jayewardene feel a
sense of loss after her demise. This extraordinary lady who conducted
herself with simplicity, dignity, poise and humility was a great source
of strength to me in the formative years of Sahanaya.
Since my initial meeting in 1982 I have had the honour of working
closely with her in relation to the development activities of the
National Council for Mental Health. This was the time I was struggling
to establish a community mental health service through the newly
established National Council for Mental Health (Sahanaya).
She had heard of my initiatives in the development of mental health
from Mr. J. W. Subasinghe and Dr. Sathis Jayasinghe and invited me to
her home to discuss my plans. During the discussion she patiently
listened to my views on prevailing problems facing people and my future
plans to develop the necessary mental health services.
At the end of the discussion she not only expressed her fullest
support for the project but to my surprise handed over a substantial sum
of money which she had ear marked for a worthy charitable project. Since
this initial encounter Mrs. Jayewardene has worked very closely with us
for more than ten years to support the development of Sahanaya as its
founder patron.
During this period she maintained a keen interest in Sahanaya
activities and had been our greatest supporter. She visited the Sahanaya
premises on a number of occasions and was associated with several of its
activities.
In 1985 she supported our requests to secure a plot of land from the
Urban Development Authority and subsequently was associated with the
late President Jayewardene in laying the foundation stone for the
construction of the first phase of the Community Mental Health Centre in
Colombo.
Her association with Sahanaya gave a high visibility to mental health
as many people who respected her came voluntarily to help us in
different ways. Subsequently in late eighties she was associated with
the laying of the foundation stone for the second phase of the building,
which was completed in two years.
Her commitment and dedication towards mental health development gave
us great inspiration and strength. She was a great advocate of mental
health development and watched our activities from a distance.
She never imposed her will or made use of her position as the chief
benefactor; instead she listened to our problems and continued to help
wherever possible.
It was rare to find someone of this stature who was prepared to come
forward to support the development of a field which did not attract many
benefactors or sympathisers at the time.
It is a great tribute to Mrs. Jayewardene that subsequently many
others have followed her example and have been associated with the
development of mental health activities in Sri Lanka. Sahanaya and the
rest of the mental health development movement in Sri Lanka owe a great
debt to this noble lady for her commitment and dedication to a great
cause.
Prof Nalaka Mendis
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