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Faizer
Mustapha is the Deputy Minister of Tourism and MP for Kandy
district. He is also the Chairman of the Eastern Tourism
Development Committee. |
How true is the rumour that many of your long term friends are on
bad terms with you due to your inability to get in touch with them?
That's true... some of my friends are on bad terms with me for not
getting in touch with them. They think that I am arrogant now, which is
an absolute myth. That is merely because I'm a busy person. Time factor
always stands on my way. My only possible weakness is that I'm
preoccupied with my work and often neglect my friends and family. Some
friends grumble that I don't even send a text to them enquiring after
their health.
So, do you continue to be a busy bee.... having a little room for
your personal affairs...?
I began to realize that I should pay much attention to my personal
life. I need to spend quality time with my family and friends. I feel
that I have held up in this rat race so that I need to get away with it.
This life style is not so healthy.
Though you are trapped in a too busy schedule to spare time for
your friends, don't you meet them at parties? And are you a party
addict?
I
am not a party type of a person at all. My working environment demands
me to attend too many cocktails and parties. I often let those functions
go unattended. I prefer to go out with a few friends whenever I find
time. That's more relaxing and enjoyable than in a crowded and noisy
party.
How often do your family members meet each other?
My father has made it compulsory for everyone of us to get together
on Friday evenings to discuss family matters and future plans. That is
the only time in which we could share everything and express our
feelings. That strengthens the bond and the love between the members in
our family.
What do you do during your leisure time?
"Leisure time"....it's an alien word for me. I hardly have free
time.. I'm a type of a person who likes to be active round the clock.
Even if I get little away from my work I do jogging and go to gym for a
work out.
Would you believe if I say that my hobby is working? I'm a boring
person I would say. Sports, recreational activities and creativity are
far beyond my scope now.
How's your trend to be fashionable?
No! I'm not as fashionable as my father. He has a vast collection of
colourful shirts and ties. I'm not a colourful or a fashionable person.
The colours I like are boring and pale.
Are you concerned about your figure and food intake?
Yes. I'm quite concerned about my figure. I go to gym and exercise on
a regular basis. But I do not control my food. I love my food.
You intake whatever is available. Is that why you have put on
weight?
I think so!
What is your favourite dish?
I like Japanese dishes.
Favourite drink?
I avoid hard liquor. I like cola drinks.
What is your favourite destination in Sri Lanka?
I prefer to stay in Kandy.
Is it because of the wholesome weather conditions in the area?
No it's the people I am attracted to. I was born in Kandy and I like
staying there.
What is your favourite destination overseas?
There's
no particular place. People around me are the deciding factor whether I
like to stay at that particular place or not. I like to keep company
with people. I would stay anywhere in the world if I can enjoy a good
company.
How is your approach to religion?
I do practise my religion ardently. I believe that the difference
between the man and the animal is the religion. All the religions in the
world guide a person to lead a righteous life. My religion helps me
purify myself.
I observe compulsory fasts during Ramadhan in spite of my busy
schedule. I set about fasting since I was seven years old.
How is your relationship with other religions?
I do respect all the religions in the world. I have close
relationship with Mahanayake Theras at Dalada Maligawa.
When did you perform Hajj?
Only last year. I have performed "Umra" several times. I became a
Hajiyar last year.
Are you well versed in Arabic?
I have a nodding acquaintance of Arabic language and am able to
recite the Quran. I am also good in writing Arabic and able to read
Arabic texts.
How's your competency in other languages?
I am fluent both in English and Sinhala. I studied in Sinhala medium
at school. But I'm stuck when I have to pronounce or identify a somewhat
complex Sinhala word.
The level of my Tamil language proficiency is same as that of an
ordinary Sinhala speaking person. I only have a limited vocabulary.
You're from a "legal family"......
Yes. My grandfather, H. M. Musthapha, my father, Faiz Musthapha and
my sister are lawyers. My grandfather was from a village called Madawala
in Kandy. He was a practising lawyer there. During Udathalawinna
massacre, my grandfather was assassinated and I appeared for that court
case.
How was your relationship with your siblings when you were young?
I have only one sister. I used to be a fighting cock at home. I used
to fight with my sister very often because she always had the habit of
poking her nose into my work.. I was thoroughly irritated by her
behaviour.
My parents didn't know what I was up to and my sister used to carry
tales to them. I used to hate my sister and always dragged her into
fights. She used to boss me around like a mother. At such times I
somehow managed to keep my mother convinced.
Did your parents always side with you?
They were smooth on me most of the time. Since I'm the youngest and
the only boy at home I received a great deal of love from them. I'd been
thoroughly pampered by my mother. She has been a source of strength to
me. When I underwent two operations as a child, my mother was with me
for almost two months at the Durdens Hospital.
If you reminisce your impish jobs at school those days.....
I studied at Royal College, Colombo. I was annoyingly mischievous not
only at school but at home and wherever I was. I don't think many of
boys would have committed so much mischief as I'd done when I was
schooling. I was very often punished for fighting with other students,
lack of heed to teachers and skipping classes.
What punishments did your teachers impose on you?
I'd been caned and been asked to keep kneeling down for a long period
of time and so on... But my parents had hardly hit me. They gave me the
freedom to explore things whether positive or negative.
Why did people in Malwana call you `Shaithan Kutti' (devil's
child)?
I
had relatives in Malvana and whenever we visited them I used to hang
around the village and demand the villagers' belongings. If they had
goats I too wanted a goat. If they had dogs, cats or something else, I
too wanted it. That was completely intolerable and villagers used to
call me "Shaithan Kutti". Just imagine what an imp I'd been.
The imp was sporty as well at school?
I hardly involved myself in any sports activities.
How's your interest in studies?
Though I was a headstrong and mischievous type of a boy at school I
managed to carry on with my studies successfully with the guidance of my
parents.
How is your academic career?
I was selected to the faculty of law at the University of Colombo and
I planned and pursued my studies to become an attorney-at-law. Then I
left for London to pursue my higher studies. I did my masters in
Commercial law at the University of Aberdeen.
What support did you receive from your father in order to come up
in your profession as a lawyer?
My father worked as a President's Counsel. After I took oaths, I
could have easily worked with my father since it's lucrative working
with him. But he didn't allow me to shine by his name. He wanted me to
have a secular identity and asked me to work separately.
If I worked with him I could have earned a lot. I went to Mt. Lavinia
courts and appeared for ordinary cases . It was tough for me. I didn't
like my father's attitude that time since I had to undergo a pangs of
hardships.
My father moulded a good lawyer in me. Had it not been for him, I
wouldn't have been what I am today. He has been a tower of strength to
me. He is a prima and proper lawyer, where as I need some more steps for
that.
Name a long felt penchant of yours that fulfilled itself quite
recently?
That was to buy a pony and a motorbike. I could fulfil that long felt
need some time ago. But you know, I had to sell the pony after two
months.
Why?
Because the whole house started stinking and gave a nauseating
feeling and no body could even eat at home.
Why.., didn't you have a separate garden for the pony?
No. There's no such spacious garden at home to keep the pony. It was
tied in a small space in the compound.
No one at home liked me buying the pony and they put a protest. For
not listening to them, they acted against me and didn't even help me
with feeding, bathing and cleaning the place. I had to do all that on my
own. Just imagine, I'm such a busy person who has no time to spare for
such jobs. So, ultimately I had to sell the pony.
Do you have any exciting memory of that pony?
Yes...! Wonderful thing happened to me one day when I was jogging
with my pony. When I was walking the pony at the Campbell Park, one
officer came and told me that ponies are not allowed at the park. Then I
started arguing with the officer, "how come if others can walk their
dogs, why the hell can't walk my pony". Then he told only dogs not
ponies are allowed. I raised my tone and it became a clamour and people
thronged there to see the panorama!
You
are flippant, aren't you?
Mmmm, may be... I think I talk a lot...
A few of your closest friends say that you do some crazy
things....
I do crazy things with those who are closer to me. I don't think
doing a little bit of crazy things is bad. If you would play practical
jokes just for amusement, people would think you're some what crazy. A
man who is hundred percent sober is dead and his life becomes a white
tombstone. A little bit of craziness by the side is always a great joy.
I go on doing a few crazy things too... and a few things that are
mysterious, for which you cannot find any reason.
What is your goal in personal life?
To get the deep water diving licecse and the private pilot licence. |