'A man who achieved much success: we are a contended couple'
Thamara talks about life with Minister Bandula
Gunewardhana:

Pix: Chinthaka Kumarasinghe
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Bandula
Gunewardhana is the Cabinet Minister of Trade, Marketing Development,
Co-operatives and Consumer Affairs; and the man of `Success', one of the
famous tutors of Economics and Commerce. Apart from his achievements in
his career, what Bandula has achieved in his personal life is no secret.
This is what his wife Thamara has to say about him.
"He plans his life with targets. So far all his goals have been
achieved. He is a man of success," claims Thamara. Homagama was the
hometown of Akaravitage Thamara Jayanthi Kusumachandra who was born on
October 31. What I (the writer) intends to state about Homagama
specifically was the town where the bud of rose of their love blossomed.
`Me Nagaraya Ma Oba munagasunu Nagarayayi....' (this is the town that we
met) - sung by the famous singer Mervin Perera is the best felicitous
verse I could recollect. Though the rest of the song implies a farewell
between the two lovers, I quote only the first line of the verse.
Apart from being the `Gurupiya' (teacher who rendered a fatherly
figure) for many lakhs of students in his Economics and Commerce
tutories spread in several main towns in Sri Lanka for 25-30 years,
Bandula is a beloved father of five children. His beautiful nest built
with Thamara at Nugegoda is full of love and benevolence. Thamara, the
captain of the ship who knows to sail `life' smoothly with peace and
happiness believes that modesty and simplicity are the two essential
ingredients for life. "Bandula always yearned for a big family. We are
very happy and proud of all five of them," says the dedicated mother,
beginning to recall her past as well.
Akaravitage Kusumachandra, a businessman who owned many shops in the
Homagama town, and Pathiravithanalage Dona Premawathie were her parents.
Thamara was the youngest to two elder sisters and three elder brothers.
"I had my education at Anula Vidyalaya, Nugegoda throughout. I was
boarded at a relative's place from grade three to six, as my mother
found it difficult to take me to and fro to school. She had to attend to
many responsibilities as my father had already passed away by that
time," she reminisces.
"Amma was pregnant with me when my father's death occurred. It was a
tragical death. I was born on the very day of the third month's death
anniversary -`Bana and Dana' (alms-giving). However we didn't face much
difficulties since we were a business family. It was our maternal uncle
who looked after all our businesses until my brothers reached the age to
handle them. After that it was my eldest brother who took control over
everything. He even postponed his marriage until all of his siblings got
married. He was very strict with us, and looked after us well.
Coincidentally his wife also gave birth to their second child (a
daughter) on the day of the third month of my brother's death
anniversary.
We missed him too," recalls Thamara. Thamara still remembers how she
used to talk about her father in her imaginary world when her similar
age group kids talked about their fathers. She missed the fatherly love.
But, today with great respect, denotes the fulfilment in her life which
she gets from her husband, and so she immensely appreciates that.
"I was not that much interested in the extracurricular activities at
school. Instead, I tended to learn subjects with regard to `home
economy', and followed cookery, sewing and other affiliated subjects
during my school days," she smiles.
Question: He is interested in country and global economy, and
you've trained yourself to handle the home economy. Well balanced! Isn't
it?
Thamara: Yes (smiles). I try my best to avoid worrying him,
and have managed to handle all the household chores and even the
children's work. But he never fails to give me the strength in every
aspect. He has laid a well planned foundation financially. Also however
busy he may be, Bandula never fails to look into the education and other
requirements of our children. He is a man who knows how to plan the
daily activities economically.
Sumithrarachchige Don Bandula Chandrasiri Gunewardane was born on
March 16 at `Sumitra Sevena', Rajamalwatta Road, Battaramulla, to
Sumithrarachchige Don Charles Albert Gunewardane who worked as a clerk
at Golden Fraizer, an English Company in Sri Lanka and Iddamalgodage
Dona Wimalawathie as the second of four children.
Bandula had his education first at Subhuthi Maha Vidyalaya,
Battaramulla. His father's death which occurred when he was 6 or 7
years, made his maternal grandfather, Mabula Ralahamy to takeover their
father's role. So, Bandula was sent to Mavalgama Roman Catholic College
in his mother's village at Avissawella electorate, where he settled down
with his mother and his siblings. Through a Grade Five scholarship,
Bandula entered Rajasinghe Vidyalaya, Hanwella, and then Lumbini
Vidyalaya, Colombo for his A/Ls.
Lumbini did many changes in his life. It was the era in which the
Lumbini Theatre Hall was used for many celebrated
events including stage dramas, literary seminars and discussions. As
a result, the award winning films which marked the history of Lankan
film industry, like `Suddilage Kathawa' (directed by Dharmasiri
Bandaranayaka in 1983); `Siri Madura' and `Ayoma' (directed by Parakrama
Niriella respectively in 1985 and 1989) came out as his productions.
Bandula got the Best Producer's Awards for both `Suddilage Kathawa' and
`Siri Madura' at the Sarasaviya Film Festival for the respective years.
. He knew the importance of earning and saving Cents and Rupees. He
began to earn his first Rupee after sitting for O/Ls by giving tuition,
and continued it until recently. Bandula entered the campus in 1975, and
passed out with a BSc (Business Administration), Special Honours from
the University of Sri Jayawardanepura, Nugegoda. After that he qualified
for MAT (Member of Accounts Technician Association) of Sri Lanka.
Bandula who taught students very early in his life realised that
there was a vacuum for reading materials in Commerce and Economics. This
young man who had the intuition about the requirement penned his first
book in Economics and published it in 1975. Eventually, by the time he
passed out from the University he was a publisher of ten books on the
subject. Some of his `comrades' who were really `worried' about his
succes wrote to the Income Tax Department to look into his income, and
as a result he became a taxpayer from his University days. His books
were sold in thousands and thousands like hot cakes no sooner they were
released to the market. Each time, the first ten thousand copies of the
book was snapped up from bookshops, and the printers faced difficulties
in supplying the demand. "I have been paying Income Tax since I was an
university student. And now even while being in the Government, I still
pay Tax and VAT to the Government," once Bandula said. So far he had
written about 35-40 books on Commerce and Economy.
Question: He has written so many best-selling books on
Commerce and Economy. He might have sent you some sweet love notes as
well.
Thamara : (Blushes and laughs) We did exchange letters. But,
...sorry... I can't remember what he wrote in them (laughs).
Question: How did your romance begin?
Thamara: He conducted Econ and Commerce tuition classes at `Sivali',
Homagama. He has been a long time friend of my brothers as well. He even
attended the alms- giving we gave in remembrance of the death of one of
my brothers, a Seaman who drowned during a sea bath in Greece. At that
time I was doing my O/Ls. Later I joined his A/L classes as I too
selected the same stream. I noticed him paying more and special
attention to me at the class by giving me books and repeating the
lessons until I got grasped it. One day he sent his love proposal
through one of my female friends. I was bewildered as it was unexpected.
I knew my secured background would not allow me to do a thing like that,
and refused. But, he didn't give up. I thought he would change his mind
when I kept on ignoring him. But I continued attending the class. After
one year, I thought I should give him a bit of a place, and asked him to
forward the proposal to my home people. As I expected, they were not
that pleased at the beginning as both of us were studying. He was a
campus student at that time. But we let our affair continue silently for
about two years. We didn't have the opportunity to go out and meet. We
both used to bump into each other at our shops at Homagama. As a
routine, he paid visits there to meet my brother. After A/Ls, that was
the only way we could see each other. We exchanged letters through our
friends. However, our horoscopes tallied well, and we got the consent
from elders after a seven-year-affair (smiles). We had to wait a bit
until my elder sisters got married. We tied the knot on November 17 in
1983.
Apart from `Sussex' at Nugegoda, Bandula conducted classes in Gampaha,
Kalutara, Galle and Colombo. During the exam days, he used to have his
common examination classes at Sugathadasa Stadium, Colombo for about
10,000 students of his, for ten days annually. From 1975 to 2000, was
his target of period for teaching, and then he stepped into full time
politics.Bandula got himself into active politics while as a campus
student joining with Dinesh Gunewardhana and his MEP (Mahajana Eksath
Peramuna). He was one of the chief political orators at the MEP stage
when Dinesh
contested for Avissawella at the General Election on 1977. Bandula
was unanimously elected as the President of the Student Council in his
very first year at the Campus. In 1989, Bandula won the Parliamentary
Election on the MEP ticket, and became an MP for Colombo District. In
1998, he became a Western Province MP on the MEP ticket. In 2001, MEP
joined with President Chandrika's Sri Lanka People's Alliance (PA)
Government, and so too Bandula. But, after some time, along with the
group who was tired of her reign, Bandula too left the PA and joined
with the UNP, under which he was appointed as the Cabinet Minister of
Rural Economic Development and Deputy Minister of Finance. He continued
to be with the UNP MP in 2004, and re-joined the UPFA to pay his great
appreciation towards President Mahinda Rajapaksa's successful endeavour
in curing the prevailing wound- the twenty year period of terrorism.
At present, Bandula is writing two Sinhala dictionaries for Economics
and Commerce; `Aarthika Vidyave Atuwawe' and `Vanija Vidyave Atuvava'.
"I really feel sad about the present Parliamentarians as they have a
very poor knowledge of the words used in these two subjects. To
`respect' their views, sometimes I get up and leave the House when
there's a debate. I've noticed my co-Parliamentarians often use wrong
words and phrases (without knowing the actual meaning of them) when
trying to explain facts in Economics and Commerce. Apart from that some
even applaud or oppose things at wrong times. It's a shame for me, after
being a teacher of the relevant subjects for nearly 30 years! That's why
I've decided to publish these two dictionaries as a duty by myself,"
once said Bandula in an earlier interview with media.
Question: He has targets and plans. I think he had achieved
many of them. What's next in line, in your personal life, in politics
and business?
Thamara: We both want to see our children do well in life. We
are very happy about them. They are studying well. Our eldest son,
Chathura is in the Greenich University following a Business Management
Degree in UK. Our second son, Veranjana is waiting for his A/L results.
Both are Royalists. Randula will sit for O/Ls this year. Kumudumali is
in Year 11. Both go to Musaeus. The youngest, Hasanjali is in Grade 5 at
Visakha. My husband always tells our children that though their father
does politics, his children should concentrate in studies as that's
their duty. We never use government vehicles for our private use.
Sometimes my sons still travel by bus. I too prefer to lie low and lead
a humble and peaceful life.What Bandula always says is, Sri Lanka is a
place which has a lot of entrepreneurship, but our younger generation
are too lazy and they wait until things fall on to their laps, or until
the government provides them things. They just are idle taking part in
strikes and blaming the prevailing government or constantly being
jealous with the affluent society who have come up in life, may be
through hardships. There's no use in living like that.
Question: Your husband is very popular among Lankan
cartoonists, and is often seen in many of the cartoon corners of
newspapers.
Thamara: (Smiles) Yes! Well, Bandula is planning to hold an
exhibition, a collection of the published cartoons delineating himself,
early next year. What he assumes through such cartoons is that many
don't realise what he tries to imply. Hence, he hopes to title it as `Handunagaththoth
Oba Ma...' (if you perceive my true self....). He also hopes to offer Rs.
100,000 for the best cartoon and Rs. 50,000 for the second prize. |