How to compliment your partner
 Men, compliment your girlfriends often and from your heart. Here are
a few thoughts on how to compliment your partner in a way that will be
meaningful to her.
Step 1
Be genuine in your compliments. She knows if you don’t mean what you
are saying to her. If you cannot give her a genuine compliment, it may
be best to say nothing at all.
Step 2
N-I-C-E is a four-letter word. Don’t use this word when complimenting
your girlfriend! The word nice can be applied in a lot of other ways,
but not when you’re complimenting her on her choice of clothing,
hairstyle, or character. Nice is not a genuine compliment to most women!
Step 3
Compliment on her positive character traits. She needs to know that
she is compassionate, kind, generous, determined, thoughtful, creative,
loyal, considerate, industrious, gentle, patient, thrifty, a good friend
and an excellent girlfriend.
Step 4
Compliment her on her beauty – both inside and out. Yes, women need
to know they are loved and appreciated as a person, not just for one
aspect of their physical beauty or character. Pay attention to the
details. Compliment your girlfriend on her new haircut, the colour she’s
wearing, her new earrings or necklace, or anything else about her that
has changed. Be specific. She needs you to “notice” her, whether you’ve
been together one year or five.
Step 5
Tell her, “You are beautiful”. Don’t say, “You look beautiful.” To
many women, the second compliment tells her that she’s only beautiful
when wearing certain clothes or wearing makeup. Make a statement about
her as a person. Let her know that you’re still proud to walk into a
room with her walking beside you.
- ehow.com
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