Mother commits suicide with younger daughter, elder
daughter survives to tell the tale:
A heart-rending tragedy
By Ananda Agalakada

Charunya’s grandmother consoling her
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Manjula in good times |
A heart- rending tragedy of how a mother killed herself and ended the
life of her two-year-old daughter by jumping in front of a moving train,
is a telling indictment of the tragedy that has befallen our times. Two
innocent lives were lost because a family could not sort out issues that
confronted them. On that Saturday night, Manjula Erandi Priyashanthi lay
in her bed wondering and in confusion, unable to sleep, because her
hopes for a bright future were shattered. An owl was hooting in the
distance as signifying a bad omen. She looked around the bed room. The
windows and doors were shut tight. She wept in the dark nestling her two
daughters, confused and afraid.
Manjula was suffering from a long standing family dispute which had
drained her strength and hope. She feared for the future of her two
small daughters. She had tried hard to solve the problems she and her
family faced but to no avail. On that fateful Saturday night she had
finally taken a decision which she thought would end her misery.
But it was a deadly decision as she had decided to take her life. She
may have thought long and hard to come to such a drastic decision. She
may have thought that there was no future for her daughters without her.
She may have decided to take them with her to the next world, which she
may have thought would be kinder to her and her children
The 32-year-old Manjula resided in Pannala, Horawadunna with her
husband and two daughters. She was a teacher at “Sumaga” primary school
in Pannala.
The nine-year-old Charunya Sandamini Jayashantha was her eldest
daughter and two-year-old Viraji Uthpala Jayashantha was her youngest.
Indika Neil Jayashantha, 37, was her husband and he was working in a
garment factory in Giriulla as an executive officer.
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OIC of
Veyangoda police M.D.S.C. Newnhella |
H.M.H.GD.
Herat, Veyangoda station master |
The eldest daughter Manjula recalls, “on that fateful day my sister
and I went with my mother on our motor-bike. We went towards Bowatta and
Mother was riding at high speed which she would never do on other days.
Later she stopped the bike at a hotel in Bowatta junction. We had
breakfast there. After leaving the bike at the junction we got on a bus
from Bowatta to go to Giriulla.
“My mother told us we were going to our uncle’s house in Mihirigama.
So we got down to Giriulla and got onto another bus from there to go to
Mihirigama. After getting off at Mihirigama she bought five packets of
tipi tip biscuits and three packets of milk as well as some tablets.
I was confused because my mother usually does not buy so many biscuit
packets or milk on other days.
Later we got on the train and she bought tickets from the Mihirigama
station to Gampaha. However, we never went to Gampaha and we got off at
the Keenawela station. She went to a house with us near the Keenawela
station because I wanted to use the toilet at that time. While we were
returning, my mother told me that the train was coming and we must get
on the train”.
“The next thing I knew was mother was running towards the oncoming
train, clutching me and my sisters . She held my hands in a tight grip.
My heart leapt with fear and I shouted to mother that a train was
coming. But she did not hear me. She kept on running towards the train
clutching our hands tighter. However, when the train came closer, her
grip slackened and I jumped out of the railway track. I saw Mother
jumping in front of the oncoming train with my sister. I was in shock.
As soon as the train knocked my mother and sister it came to a grinding
halt”.
Then I saw my sister lying in a pool of blood on the side of railway
track. I carried her in my hands but I could not see my mother’s face as
it was severely injured.
After that I carried my sister and shouted appealing for help. Then
many of uncles and aunts and police uncles rushed towards me.
They took my sister to hospital and my mother’s lifeless body was
taken into the train. I then went to the Veyangoda station in the same
train. Aunty Sandamali had come to see us and she told me that my sister
would be okay soon. Later I came to my grandmother’s house with aunty
Sandamali
“Why did your mother do such thing?” The aunt had then questioned
Charunya. “I wanted to know the reason for my sister to take such a
drastic step. Charunya said that her mother was all the time being
harassed by my father, grandmother and my father’s sister. “On some days
they assaulted my mother after putting her on the ground”, Charunya
said.

Funeral poster |
On that day she was teaching me from a grade five question paper.
Suddenly all of them came and began quarrelling with my mother. They
snatched my mother’s talisman with the necklace which was around her
neck. After that my grandfather began hitting her on her head with a
torch” Charunya said.
OIC of Veyangoda police M.D.S.C. Newnhella said,” I got an anonymous
telephone call about the incident. After that I called 119 and clarified
the incident. Then I understood that this had happened over a family
dispute. H.M.H.GD. Herat, station master of the Veyangoda station said “
The body of the woman was handed over to us. The tragedy had occurred
when she jumped in front of the moving Yaldevi train when it was coming
towards the Keenawela station.
On that day we were on alert as the train was getting late and we
came to know about the incident. The eldest child was taken by her aunt
at the Veyangoda station”.
I saw some uncles rushing towards me but after that I could not
remember anything. People told me that I had fainted. Later I came to
know that my mother and sister had died”.
Charunya said that her mother had attempted to jump in front of the
train on three occasions but that because she had shouted her mother was
prevented from jumping in front of the moving trains. On the last
occasion her mother had just run towards the train and without looking
back leapt in front of the moving train tugging onto hers and her
sister’s hands.
Manjula’a husband, Neil Jayashantha told the inquest it was his wife
and second daughter who had died in the tragedy. He said they were
married for 11 years and that his wife and two children had lived with
him in his house. “My parents resided near my house in their premises.
The day before the incident I returned home after work. Around 6.30 in
the evening I went to the town and returned home only at about 9.00 pm
.After a few minutes I went to my parent’s home with my second daughter.
While I was in my parent’s house my wife came and began a quarrel with
me over some matter.
Returning home we went to bed after dinner. On the next day, very
early in the morning I was confused because my wife was getting ready to
go somewhere with my two daughters. And I questioned her as to where she
was going. She told me she would go to her parent’s house and she left
with the daughters on her motorbike.
However, I was suspicious over her actions so I called her to ask
where she was. She told me over the phone that she was in Kurunegela at
that time. After a few minutes once again I asked again where she was?
Then she told me she was at the railway station” her husband said. She
however told me “‘I will not return home after this”
Later I left for the railway station in Mihirigama. While I was at
the Mihirigama station I got a call from an officer from Veyangoda
station telling me that a woman had jumped in front of a moving train
with her two daughters and that one of them had escaped while the other
was dead. He told me that they might be my wife and daughter. I could
not believe what I heard over the phone and I promptly left for the
Veyangoda station. Later I identified the bodies as those of my wife and
daughter”. JMO of the Wathupitiwela hospital, S.P.P. Gunawardene carried
out the post mortem.
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