
Quest for inner peace forces fashion designer to become a Buddhist
nun
Ting Tien, 24, was a fashion designer with access to the best of
clothes and make-up. But being disillusioned with the lifestyle she and
her friends were leading she decided to give up all her material
comforts to join the Buddhist Order.
Her quest for inner peace made her do something that's not really
expected of girls her age.

Before and after |

Ting with her parents after joining the Buddhist Order |
Ting, a native of Jinan City in Eastern China, attended the Qingdao
University in Shandong Province, specialising in luxury goods design.
But after her graduation, she found everything around her
increasingly materialistic and too much to handle.
Yearning for enlightenment and inner peace, Ting made a very unusual
choice for most Chinese girls her age - she joined Xinlongdongzhi
Temple, a remote Buddhist place of worship located on a snow-covered
mountain, at 13,000 feet above sea level, in Sichuan Province.
She shaved her head, shed her designer outfits and adopted the simple
life of a Buddhist nun, filled with sacrifice and prayer.
To complete the transformation, Ting even changed her name to
Caizhenwangmu, and set finding spiritual fulfilment as her ultimate goal
in life.
Ting's story gained a lot of attention after photos of her before and
after the dramatic change were posted online. She became an instant hit
across China, where most people live their lives in the pursuit of
materialistic goals and successful careers.
When asked about why she decided to give up her promising career to
live isolated in a Buddhist temple, Ting's reply was simple: "I just
feel the need to gain an understanding of life and death, and what it's
all about," she said.
"I'm also eager to do what I can to make the world a better place for
all living creatures. What's more, believing in the Buddha makes me a
nun."
What is in a name? But it is different in Iceland
If you are born in Iceland you won't be able to have the name you are
using at present. In Iceland generally a baby's name is not revealed
until its official naming ceremony (often accompanied by a baptism).
Legally, parents have up to six months to name their baby and it's
not uncommon for a child to be 'nameless' for this period of time (of
course the parents may know the name, but it's kept a secret from
everyone else).
So, what do you call a baby with no name?
Up until the naming ceremony babies are often referred to as drengur
(boy), stúlka (girl), elskan (an affectionate term like 'honey' or
'sweetheart'), or Gunnarsson/Gunnarsdóttir (depending on if it is a girl
or a boy, according to the Old Norse naming system).

Duncan [left] and Harriet Cardew |
The worst of it all is that baby names in Iceland must be chosen from
an official list issued by the Mannanafnanefnd, or personal name
committee. If Icelandic parents want to use a name that is not on the
list, they must submit a petition to the committee, along with a small
fee, and wait to hear if the name is accepted or rejected. (Exceptions
to the naming law are made for foreign-born parents.)
Recently the official Board of Human Names turned down requests for
registering Malm and Adil as new Icelandic male names, Mosi, Svea,
Eybjort and Korka were accepted.
According to Icelandic law regarding human names, given names have to
fit Icelandic rrammer rules and be spelled in an "Icelandic way" unless
the name had belonged to the family of the child for generations.
Iceland recently denied 10-year-old Harriet Cardew's passport renewal
request because her name doesn't comply with Icelandic baby naming laws.
Her name doesn't appear on the approved list of 1,853 female and 1,712
boy names.
Icelandic laws state that unless both parents are foreign, they must
submit their name choice to the National Registry for approval within
six months of birth.
The name must fulfil requirements that include "Icelandic grammatical
endings," "linguistic structure of Iceland" and "Icelandic orthography."
Lilja and Belinda, two of the couple's four children, have their
names on their passports because they were born in France.
However, Harriet and her brother Duncan, 12, were born in Iceland,
but did not have their names approved by the committee.
They live in Reykjavik, Iceland, and up until this point, have been
going by "Girl" and "Boy" on their passports.
But upon getting Harriet's passport request, the government went a
step further and denied her an updated passport completely, which could
put her family's upcoming trip to France on hold.
So Tristan and his wife, Kristin, appealed.
"They have deprived our daughter of freedom of movement," Kristin
said.
Baby name "bans" might sound crazy in a country where they're unheard
of, but governments all over the world set naming guidelines.
Baby-naming site, Nameberry, reports that countries like Germany and
Italy have their own rules - in Germany, surnames as first names like
"Anderson" aren't allowed; In Italy, names that could embarrass a child
are questioned.
"In fact, some of these are not long-standing strictures, but
relatively recent ones," wrote Nameberry's co-founder and naming expert
Linda Rosenkrantz.
The Cardews could bypass the name block by changing Harriet's middle
name to an Icelandic one, but the family thinks it's too late. Instead,
they applied for an emergency passport from the British Embassy where
dad Tristan is from.
He finds the name approval process absurd. "The whole situation is
really rather silly," he said. |