Point of view: Release distrust, develop trust

These days distrust and doubt is rampant and is a deadly disease. If you are infected by it remember that it is a deadly germ everywhere.

Today people always remain to themselves avoiding every kind of relationship. People are suspicious, frightened and do not trust others. This disease of doubt has destroyed the foundations of true-trusting human society. People need to be trusted. Distrust brings people to ruin.

Therefore we need to face the fact that doubts do not protect us. It only brings danger to our lives. When your vision is blurred by fear, you can't trust yourself.

Distrust is dangerous. Once we are infected with distrust, we are unable to trust others, or even ourselves. We end up being isolated. So if we really want to protect ourselves the safest thing is to release distrust and develop trust.

To move from distrust to trust, the only way is to find out why we distrust others and get rid of them. We have to realise the set of negative beliefs and fears. Another source of distrust is our expectations of the past the psychological fears of the present and future.

We should release the past and walk forward with a spirit of openness. Then only can we see a brighter present and future. People who have made a great leap in the past often say that the choice was a big mistake. So ... that spreads the disease, because of past experiences. Once we release the past, we must get on with new spirit of trust, and let them prove their trustworthiness. People will trust you if you are trustworthy. This means, trust is something you can earn.

Distrust seriously hurts everyone. People will definitely trust you more if you don't hurt them by words or actions. Then you'll find people who really get along, people who really know how to love and care. Such people are rare, but can be found. So ... don't worry, it's easy to win someone's heart... if you really trust yourself, you'll definitely find good people all around you every where.

T. Achini N. Samaranayake.