A father vents his frustration on son
By Ananda Agalakada
This is a story of what happened to cute little Nadaneedan from
Maskeliya who was five-years-old. Nadaneedan's plight gives us a glimpse
of the harsh realities and unpredictability of what life has to offer.
Nadaneedan lived happily with his mother, father and three brothers.
He was the second child in his family. The little boy was very close
to his brothers and was fond of playing with them,like any other five-
year- old.
However, tragedy struck one evening to change this little boy's life
forever.
Lechchamman Rajendram, 34, was a labourer. He had never attended
school. He did not know much about the world outside and had always
confined himself to the serene environs of the tea estate he worked in.
When he was a teenager he began to earn money and was a hard worker.
He was employed in a tea estate. He came from a family that had worked
in the estate for generations so to him working on the estate was like a
duck taking to water.
Thirty-two-year-old Mahendran Mahadevi from Talawakelle had arrived
in Maskeliya with a relative. Later she had joined a tea estate as a tea
plucker. Mahadevi was a beautiful woman. Anybody would look at her for
her beauty and when she was plucking tea leaves the rhythmic movement of
her nimble fingers plucking a leaf and a bud and deftly putting them
into the basket was indeed a sight to behold. She was the best looking
woman among her mates at the tea estate. The men in the estate would
just stop and stare at her for hours on end and she was well aware that
her beauty was causing ripples in the estate.
Lechchamman who worked in the same estate had his eyes on Mahadevi
for some time. He used to boast to the other workers that he would
someday marry Mahadevi.
So he did everything he could to win over Mahadevi.
Drawn
Mahadevi was reluctant at the beginning, however she too was later
drawn to him and consented to marriage.
Their marriage was celebrated by all the workers. Celebrations ran
well into the night. After marriage the couple led a happy life and
Mahadevi came to respect and love her husband. She always thought that
her husband would work hard to protect her. She would often tell him
that she would not live a day without seeing him.
Sometime later, Mahadevi delivered her first child and Lechchamman
was very happy and proud of his first born. However, with the new
addition to the family their expenses rose and Lechchamman knew that his
earnings would not suffice to make ends meet so he decided to take on
another job.
Lechchamman began to work in other estates in Maskeliya as well to
provide for his family and to keep the home fires burning. He could not
return home in the evenings everyday because of the work load, but he
used to come home twice or thrice a week. Gradually he began consuming
liquor with his co-workers to sustain his tired body and mind.
Liquor slowly began to take a hold on him, virtually draining him of
his good qualities and sapping his energy. His relationship with his
wife too got affected and quarrels between the two became a frequent
occurrence. He began laying his hands on her for every trivial issue.
Although Mahadevi was beaten by her husband, she tried hard to keep
the peace and had a cordial relationship with the other workers who were
living in the line rooms.
Lechchamman, however, did not stop drinking, in fact his consumption
of liquor got worse by each passing day. Mahadevi gave birth to more
children and the number rose to four. They were all sons. Their eldest
son who saw the commotions breaking out regularly in his house was
deeply affected and decided to leave his home and live with his mother's
relatives.
Pleadings
Lechchamman did not heed his wife’s constant requests to stop
consuming liquor. She pleaded with him to set an example to the children
and stop consuming liquor. Lechchamman did not heed any of these
pleadings and turned a deaf ear. His wife was now frustrated as the days
went by as she could not see any improvement in the predicament she was
facing.
On that fateful day, Lechchamman returned home in a fit of anger. He
began to beat his wife and was in a frenzy. He did not care what
happened to his wife. She was looking for a place to hide from her
husband to escape the beating. She had enough and her patience was
wearing out. Finally she decided to leave her marital home and live with
her parents in Talawekelle.
Mahadevi was aware that her husband loved their second child more
than the other children. Then she left for Talawekele with the other two
children leaving her second child.
What fate had in store for this little child was unbelievable. On
that fateful evening as darkness returned to the tea estate in
Maskeliya, a single light glistened in the darkness and a man could be
seen at a distance swaying from side to side. This was Nawaneedan's
father returning home after a hard day's work with a torch in hand. He
returned home late in the night every day under the influence of liquor.
Lechchamman after returning home began looking for his wife and
children. He then realised that they had left him and fled to
Talewekelle to live with Mahadevi's parents.
Nadaneedan was too small to understand what was happening. He only
wanted to play and be loved. He wanted a close cuddle from his father.
He did not shout and he did not ask for his mother or brothers because
he thought as long as he was with his father there won't be any problem.
Disappearance
Lechchamman could not control his anger after coming to know about
his wife’s disappearance. Overcome with anger he lost his senses and the
only person in the household was the little boy on whom he vent his
anger and frustration. Lechchamman rushed to the kitchen and went to the
burning hearth and taking a firewood which was still burning, he burnt
the child's face. He was furious with his wife and did not know what he
was doing and did not even realise he had harmed his son. Neighbours on
hearing the cries of the child rushed to the scene and separated the son
from his father. But it was too late for the little boy. There were
first degree burns already inflicted on the little boy.
Maskeliya police on information rushed to the location. OIC of the
Maskeliya police, Asitha Thodagodawatta and a police team arrested
Lechchaman and the little boy was admitted to the Nawalapitiya hospital
by the police. However, for the little boy it was too late, he was
scarred for life at the hands of his own father. He was not only
physically scarred but mentally as well. |