Laugh...
moderately
If you're depressed, stressed or sad, laugh moderately. Not
excessively. Laughing moderately can heal your sad feelings. It can work
as a therapy for depression and stress. Moderate laugh can keep your
soul enlightened and vibrant.
One of the Arabic scholars has said "I make it a practise to laugh in
order to give rest and comfort to my heart". By smiling or in another
words, by laughing moderately you can cast off worries, which are
perhaps permeant inhabitants of your heart. Do laugh, and then see how
much it will heal you. A moderate laughter clears all impurities in your
heart. When you laugh it gargles the worries and throw them away.
In Islam they teach that a best form of charity one can do is to
smile at people who you meet and to please them through that. Prophet
Mohommed said that "If you smile in the face of your brother, then
that's a form of charity.
How please will you be to see a smiling face, rather to see a
frowning face. I would like to ask that question from you... You like to
see a frowning face or smiling face in the morning as you get up..?
Doubtlessly it should be a smiling face. No one would like to see a
frowning face.
A smile implies a good manner or a good conduct of a person. It gives
a pleasant feeling of a person. It shows
the friendliness in a person. At the first glance if we see a person
frowning we will not have good first impression which will last a long
time.
At a glance if we see a person smiling, how wicked or rude the person
can be, we tend to think that he is a good person. Frowning continence
is a mark of a low character, lightheartedness and hot heatedness. These
are the advantages of a good smile. Victor B orge said "A smile is the
shortest distance between two people".
Smile every day, if you have a reason to smile or not. It will
refresh your day. Smile in the morning, it will work as a booster for
the day.
One of the scholars wrote in one of his books "People who are always
smiling not only make their own lives more joyful, but what is more,
they are more productive people in their work and have a greater ability
to live up to their responsibilities. They are more prepared to face
difficulties and to find expedient solutions for them. They are prolific
workers who benefit themselves and others".
One of the writers once asked what he chooses if he were to chose
between money and a smiling self. He said he prefers a smiling self to
money, because for what is great wealth if it begets misery.
I recently read a book, it says, "The rose is smiling and so is the
forest. The oceans, rivers, the sky, the stars and birds are all
smiling. Similarly, the human being by his very nature is a smiling
entity, were it not for those things that counteract this natural
disposition, such as greed and selfishness, evil that contribute to his
frowning.
As
such he is an anomaly and at odds with the natural harmony of all that
surrounds him. Therefore the person whose heart is sullied cannot see
things as they truly are. Every person sees the world through himself,
through his actions, thoughts, and motives.
So if our actions are noble, if our thoughts are pure, and if our
motives are honourable, then the spectacles through which we see the
world will be clean, and the world will be sen by us as it really is- a
beautiful creation.
If the spectacles become dirty, and their lenses stained, then
everything will seem to be black and morbid.
And at the end the writer says "How much in need we indeed are of a
smile, a friendly face, easy going manners, a gentle generous soul".
When you laugh, remember not to laugh at other's faults, because no
one in the world is perfect. When you laugh at someone, remember in the
next moment you can be a subject for others to laugh at. When you laugh
make sure you don't do it in the intention of mocking or jeering.
"A smile is a curve which can set a lot of things straight". |