Who are soulmates? ...
Marriage is one of the most important undertakings in life. People
have lots of expectations about this. Some of them are realistic, some
may not. In adolescence, people always think about the one they will
fell in love with and marry. They dream about a perfect person. A
soulmate is a person who understands each other's feelings and
interests. They are not just someone that you want to be with, for the
rest of your life.
They are not just people you love from the bottom of your heart. A
soulmate is a person you had and you always miss even before you have
met him others. They are the ones you can recognize at the first
meeting, you simply sigh in relief and says, "Thank God! I met you. I
was really waiting for you."
There will be no time to understand or to question about the
particular person because you've known them for eternity. Some people
think soulmates are really fantasy people sent from heaven to protect
you from life's ups and downs.
They have no power to make life a magical perfect delight. They can
only love you like no one can ever do. There's no need to share the
stories of finding each other, because you already 'know' them as well
as you know yourself.
Learn to see yourself in their eyes, because then only you can
understand them on a soul level. Unfortunately, it's not always a
blissful experience. Sometimes we are not ready to meet our soulmates
because we are not even ready to look at ourselves through our own
minds. You will not be able to love, understand or accept your soulmate
until you are able to love yourself truly and deeply.
Did you already meet your soulmate? Did you decide to walk away from
each other? Did it scare you or hurt you? Did you experience a hard
time? Did you understand each other properly? Did you share the same
soul? Did you learn something about unconditional love? Now... Do you
miss them? Don't worry... forget the troubles you faced. But remember
the lesson you learned from the relationship.
In life there's no going back. Choose the correct path. A little push
in the correct direction can make a big difference in your life. So go
ahead... you can't return. You can undo your past mistakes. It's useless
even to wish for it to happen. But instead of all those... you can
always try again and again.
If you've never heard the voice of your soulmate count your blessing.
You still have the freedom to love anyone you choose. You can please
yourself with a better choice. So... don't try to force yourself for a
Always be happy that still you are exactly where you are supposed to
be, doing what you want. Be content! that you are free. No problem about
the rules, you are free. But you should always remember that you alone
have to be responsible for everything you do. It's up to you to decide
whether you are really free! or not! Always have limits and boundaries
Are you limitless? Then your freedom comes from letting go. But... if
you are clever, you can do anything, go anywhere, feel all the things,
whatever your heart tells you. Only thing you have to do is keep
yourself from having misunderstanding of what your responsibilities
really are. You are responsible only to yourself. Serve it truly and
fully and your'll serve all.