Avurudu reality
by Dhaneshi Yatawara
As Colombo empties of its denizens and the count down begins for the
Sinhala and Hindu New Year, it is perhaps time to reflect on
celebrations in times of change.
Traffic blocks that have become daily rituals, jaunty decorations
outside shopping malls and banners screaming 'Sale' spell Avurudu, as
much as the sounds of the Koha and the sights of the blood red erabadu.
There is happiness in the air and an added jauntiness in the steps as
families complete last minute shopping, happy they have been given a
small respite that will enable them to stretch their rupee a bit further
than the year before.
Shops are full and bargains galore, as the festive spirit gets
cranked up another notch, reminding one that pre-festival activities are
about shopping sprees and great deals as the festival itself is about
family and tradition.
How was it in the early days you wonder, when preparations began
weeks ahead, shopping was only done for necessities and 'home made' was
the norm and not a rare exception? How has the Avurudu preparations
changed for a generation growing up on 'store bought' convenience and
packaged holiday deals?
Time was when colour washing the house was much a tradition as
getting the ingredients ready for the traditions sweets, giving ear to
the sound of the cuckoo bird, watching out for the flowering coral tree
(erabadu) in the neighbourhood and stocking up on the firecrackers, to
announce the arrival of the auspicious hour. Now, and rightfully,
firecrackers are deemed not only expensive, but also a danger, and
expedience overrules traditions, making one accept easy options like
store bought kavum and kokis.
Happy avurudu
A happy avurudu is everyone's wish. So is a peaceful and prosperous
Avurudu and a fresh start. New clothes, a well laid table, laden with
traditional sweets are outer trappings that propel the hopeful wishes. A
good start is always a good omen for the rest of the year.
Sunil (55) who lives in Gampaha and earns his daily wage by driving a
three -wheeler says his family is committed to sticking to traditions
when it comes to avurudu rituals. However, he wonders. "Will we be able
enjoy the New Year as we used to do in the good old days," he said,
pointing out that the cost of living is still high and there are other
priorities in life that they need to spend money on, rather than bust it
on one festival.
He is realistic about his situation, but believes the high cost of
living has not dampened the festive spirit and points to the shopping
rush and traffic congestions in the city to make his point.
Charllotte (65) who lives in Thalawathugoda and earns a living making
sweetmeats like kavum, kokis, aluwa and aasmi, is quite famous in the
area. She is moderately happy about the income, but says, "Order
quantities have slightly dropped. People are not buying too much of
sweets these days, I thought it was because of the cost but some do not
like to eat too many sweets as many are concerned about diabetes."
However, she is aware that festive sweets have become expensive, mainly
because of the high cost of the ingredients.
Nayana's reality
For Nayana, a mother of two school attending children, who hails from
Mount Lavinia, though Avurudu is a stressful time, it is worth the
effort to go the extra mile to make it a joyful event because of the
happiness it brings to family and friends. "We can not spend as much as
we like, simply because there are so many other expenses like the
children's education and health care need. That needs priority," she
say, claiming that like many families in Colombo and elsewhere, she and
her husband now buy avurudu goodies and spend more on gifts for their
children, nephews and nieces.
Tradition and modernity, making changes and making do.... The Avurudu
is a happy event and families irrespective of their incomes are ensuring
that it remains a happy event. Parents taking a great effort to let
their children enjoy the festivities as much as they did when they were
young. Grown up children are trying to make their parents happy ensuing
they enjoy the traditions. Even though the cost of living is
skyrocketing the true avurudu spirit of bringing happiness has not faded
away.
As the oft repeated truism points out, the more things change the
more they remain they the same. For, if the Avurudu is about family,
post Avurudu is about fun and frolic in a competitive atmosphere, where
the name of the game is tradition and the overall ambiance is carnival.
It doesn't matter whether you are in a village or town; the games are
the same and the fun infectious. |